We have been together for a while and we were very close. She's been ghosting me for about 2 weeks now. There was no fight or argument, everything was okay then suddenly she stopped picking my calls and talking to me and even blocks me on Instagram. I know where she works so I can go see her. As I understand she just wants to breakup which is fine by me that's her choice and decision. I just want to know the reason why she stopped talking me just like that after everything we went through. a lot of my friends are telling me not ask her why but knowing myself, I know if can't move easily and faster without knowing the reason she did what she did. I know lots of people say the truth can hurt but I'm already hurting. if I don't know the truth everyday I'll thinking what happened or what I did wrong however she tells why she walks away I can put that chapter behind me. What do you guys think?
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Well, when my girlfriend did it, it was kind of a test. It hurt me, but she wanted to know if i cared enough to chase after her. I did and now we're happier than ever. You messed up by not going to see her at her work. Ghosting someone is extremely distasteful and shitty. You deserve an answer for the time you gave her. Go to her work and get it out of her. I really dont know why you didn't go see her at work quickly. Good chance she may have moved on by now.0