yes, I would breakup with my boyfriend if our sex drives were hugely different and for whatever reason, there was no feasible way for us to find a middle ground in which both of us were satisfied.
(love is of course a necessity but lbr- love is fueled by sex. It's not like evolution brought about this whole notion of 'pair bonding', or love, because wooing potential mates was beneficial to the species in any way other than encouraging further reproduction.)
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If sex is your relationship, then you don't have a relationship to start with. Relationship=Love
Love=unconditional
Sex=benefit
If sex is the main ingredient then you live off of benefits and not love. Love cannot equal sex. Sex is physical and love is mental.
Really depends on the frequency but I'd say sex is important but finding someone who is perfect (to you) in every other way is more important. I would just be asking them to take sexy pics/videos for you for when they're not in the mood & you are.
If our sex drives were complete polar opposites of each other, I probably would. If there isn't a big enough different though and the problem lies with either me or them I would try to work it out. But breaking up just because you "don't have enough sex" without really trying anything to fix the problem is pretty wrong in my opinion
There's nothing wrong with masturbating if you are horny. The results are the same.
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No.. Not at all. We need sex, but more importantly, we need to love each other. I'll try to encourage my partner and I'd help him out to figure out what the problem is. If my partner loves me, and isn't cheating on me, I'm totally okay with anything.
I don’t have a high sex drive at all lol
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