Why do (most) cheaters blame you for their cheating? (Page 2)

[Pattz]

They blame their partners so that they wouldn't be called the "bad ones".

[JamesAT]

Because they are selfish, childush, and narcissistic.

[Butchiew56]

It makes the person who is doing it feel better and makes you the bad one!

[outside_Toronto]

#1 - people hate taking responsibility for their negative actions.

#2 cheating is never just 1 person. Not saying both people cheat, however, both have contributed factors that lead to cheating through thoughts and actions

[Asker]

Yes. I can see how some of my actions may have pushed him to cheating (i. e., my insecurity and jealousy - but, in the end, those insecurities and jealousies were actually true about what he was doing with the person i felt he was doing them with). But then again, i can claim his actions could have led me to cheat. But, i don’t believe cheating is the answer or way to go.

My ex told me if he felt unhappy he would leave, clearly that isn’t true. He wanted his cake and to eat it too.

[colin77]

immaturity fear and selfishness

[Tohhru]

because they're pathetic

[PurplePirate]

They Try to alleviate their guilt by doing so

[Madirashed]

To find an execuse and feel lees guilt.

[Fukfase]

Because it's almost always the woman's fault.