If he isn’t interested, why does he keep contacting me?

Anonymous
I ignored this guy when he asked for dates for around a year and a half

One day we actually spoke properly and it turned out we had a huge connection and he seemed so nice so he asked me on a date and I said yes. We started dating, he told all his friends and family about me, he said he wants to be with me for a long time and how interesting I am, we had amazing dates that lasted whole days because we lost track of time.

He asked for another date, planned loads. Then out of nowhere decided he didn’t want this anymore because I was ‘rushing him’ when he was the one who had rushed me. We got into a huge argument. Since then he watches all of my posts on Snapchat, all of my stories on Instagram and responds and comments sometimes, and likes my posts still.

I know it sounds ridiculous, but when I’m not interested in somebody I don’t watch everything they do and comment on their posts? I’ve fully ignored him and haven’t opened his stories or messages. But if he’s really that uninterested, why is he still paying an interest in me?
If he isn’t interested, why does he keep contacting me?
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