Ok so I have always sworn by the no contact rule because its the only way to move on. But also because so many people claim its the best way to get an ex back and have experienced this myself. But a friend of mine is telling me that she had no contact with her ex and never heard from him again... its been a year now. They had a distance relationship so I don't know if that was part of it.
Now, I still believe in no contact to move on. But I am wondering, if you want to get your ex back with no contact... will it work if they know about the no contact rule, and what if they are trying the no contact rule on you?
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The point of no contact is never to get your ex back. If you are using no contact for that then you are playing a one sided game that doesn't necessarily guarantee the outcome you hope it does. Go no contact because you want to MOVE ON. If he calls, he calls, not because of no contact but because he WANTED to call. He can't play a game with you he doesn't know he's even in. Using no contact to win an ex back is just an excuse to stay attached to them, you have zero control over their actions whether they call you or not.0