Should I feel guilty?

[Anonymous]

So me and my boyfriend broke up because i started arguments he got fed up and sad so he said we should end things. We did and after that i felt so lonely so my guy friend asked me to come to his house I didin’t wanna have sex just wanted company but he wanted and i made it clear to him that I don’t but he was pegging me to kiss him and all so i did and he wanted me to touch his private parts but i only touched it with his pants on. It was awkward for me but i heard that my ex was at a club and i felt sad so maybe that is why i kissed him back. But now we are making thing work again and im so happy i got him back but should i feel guilty? Did i do something wrong

[MarcOfTheKing14]

If you didn't know you were gonna inevitably get back together, then it's not your fault. you thought you were officially broken up so you could do what you want. Your boyfriend definitely might get upset but it's your friend, who used you, who you should really worry about and maybe cut off.

[Asker]

Should i tell him or not? I didin’t have sex we just kissed and he wanted me to touch his private part but it was wih his clothes on i felt discusted. I cut him off after that

[Asker]

I want s guys opinion

[MarcOfTheKing14]

It's hard to say honestly, sorry I'm not much help but I would say that if it comes up, tell him. If not, well then leave it alone and put it behind you. That doesn't mean lie to him or act like it didn't happen. Just means if there is a good time to "air out" those things it's better to do so, and earlier is better than later. But until then just work on your relationship. It also wouldn't hurt to tell your boyfriend that you were "disgusted" by your friend, that way he knows there was no serious attraction. Sorry for the long and late reply :P

[Asker]

Yea understood i think its nothing to tell him about because the friend was the gross one in here and i cut him out. And no problem appreciate it 👌🏽💕

[MarcOfTheKing14]

😁 👍

[Russian_Chat_Bot]

I wouldn't say you should feel guilty. You were broken up.

Your friend sucks though dude, he took advantage of you.

[Asker]

Maybe he thought i wanted to have sex also or acting hard to get because he asked me to stay over tho but foreal i didin’t want to have sex and did not have sex w him. He’s parents were also in home. But should i say this to my boyfriend that i kissed another one or should i not say it because we broke up for couple days

[Russian_Chat_Bot]

1) "my boyfriend broke up" 2) "i felt so lonely" 3) "I didin’t wanna have sex" 4) " i made it clear to him that I don’t" 5) "was begging me to kiss him" 6) "he wanted me to touch his private parts" 7) "It was awkward for me" 8) "i felt sad so maybe that is why i kissed him back"

That is a ton of red flags right there that your friend doesn't give a shit about you and just wants to get laid.

Work it out with your boyfriend. You were broken up, so nothing to feel guilty about.

[Asker]

Yea ur right he obviously wanted just to have sex nothing more. And yea thanks for the advice foreal 🙏🏼

[Asker]

👌🏽💕

[Russian_Chat_Bot]

No problem! Be safe out there and take care of yourself

[Asker]

Same !💕