Should I tell him I like him even though he may not like me? (Page 2)

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There's no real evidence pointing toward him having feelings for me.  I'm really awkward around him so it's hard for me to show him I am interested in being more than friends.We went out to a movie before (I asked him to come with me and I paid for his ticket since he drove us to the theater about a half hour away.)  Any time I ask to hang out with him alone he agrees unless he's busy, but he never really makes an effort.  I met him through mutual friends with whom he is very close to and whom he has known for a very long time.  I just started to get to know these people about a year ago.  They all have big loud personalities and I'm a bit quieter so I feel like I fade into the background in comparison.  Sometimes I feel like he doesn't notice me at all.I want to make something for him or write him a letter telling him how I feel.  Something small but impacting.  I don't mind us being friends (kinda) and I'd let him know that if he wasn't interested it wouldn't harm our friendship.  I just really like him and want to a.) get my point across, b.) give him a little Valentine's day ego boost and c.) gain a bit of closure.  I think I'm more afraid of missing out if I didn't tell him than being hurt if did tell him.  That being said, guys, would you mind if you got a romantic gift from a good friend or would you just feel awkward about it and wished she hadn't said anything in the first place?

Bishopman101 · Answer

I'd say tell him. There's nothing worse than unexpressed feelings toward a person. I would either give him a hand-written letter, or just tell him face-to-face. Personally, I wouldn't mind if I got a romantic gift from a good friend.

Anonymous · Answer

ask him!

take the risk, after all you'll never know unless you ask.

If he likes you, your in luck.

If he doesn't, don't worry about it too, much a lot of guys out there.

he missed out on something good :)

destroyer · Answer

Yes, tell him, take a chance!

sacagiaweia · Answer

defanatly tell him.

mariah277 · Answer

yeah tell him (=

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, you should try.

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