Girls vs guys after a breakup? Why does it seem like guys move on really fast after a breakup and girls take a lot longer to heal and move on? (Page 2)
It affects guys over a longer period of time, that’s why. So really the truth is the opposite of what you think but when you look at it on the surface it looks back to front when not considering the whole picture.
I dont think guys just get over stuff like that. They just don't like to show they're hurting and they keep their minds occupied with other things so that they don't ever have to get sad.
1. Its a different curve guys go through greif 2. They do think but it an attempt to understand what went wrong 3. Guys pretending to be ok doesn't mean they are ok
excellent point #3 bc what we observe from men being conditioned in society it appears as though they are okay, or moving on when really they may be hurt
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It affects guys over a longer period of time, that’s why. So really the truth is the opposite of what you think but when you look at it on the surface it looks back to front when not considering the whole picture.
I noticed the exact opposite in my experience, all girls move on without batting an eyelash and every guy just seems destroyed and turns player
Not true
They might act like it
But trust me they are feeling it, it's all bottled inside which is worse really.
I dont think guys just get over stuff like that. They just don't like to show they're hurting and they keep their minds occupied with other things so that they don't ever have to get sad.
Depends on the individual and how attached they were to their partner.
They mask it off easier since they mask everything off more.
Guys aren't allowed to show emotions... luckily for me I don't have any
It's probably just your perspective. A woman can break up with a man, then the same day walk outside and get a new one.
1. Its a different curve guys go through greif
2. They do think but it an attempt to understand what went wrong
3. Guys pretending to be ok doesn't mean they are ok
excellent point #3 bc what we observe from men being conditioned in society it appears as though they are okay, or moving on when really they may be hurt
Because girls get very emotionally attached whereas guys don't. It's biological.
In my observation it's been the opposite. Men just conceal their emotions.
Cause we for more often friendzoned, breakups etc girls dont have as much expirience as we do
Not true! Guys just pretend to be macho as if it didn't hurt them as well.
really it depends on how much he or she loves their partner... the person who loves more has likely to take longer time to move on
Where did you learn that bullshit?
Women have usually moved on before they even end the first relationship!
Oh trust me, the opposite can often be the case.
We do care, and we do think we just dont show it.
Cold hearts.
speak for yourself
Totally true