I don't know what to think about it other than it's possible. I'm sorry to hear that. Well it probably means something was going on with that persons life other than just break up. I don't think a break up could cause the suicide alone it could've been a final straw or triggering something. But I think it's also possible to cause to be only th break up but very unlikely based on my knowledge on my combined knowlwdge of reading a lot of reddit posts and comments section and watching stuff on youtube. It's very possible to get depressed after the break up and very likely if things get worse for that person it may lead to suicide. I heard that suicidal men aren't taken seriously by society which if wrong and stupid. Men should be able to show emotions . But that's just my opinion based of off my current thoughts although I stan for men should be able to do what women do and women should be able to do what men do. It is dissapointing how society doesn't take female pedophilia seriously . Keeping it all to yourself could lead to a suicide if no one notices or you yourself don't get help somehow it may escalate . Sometimes emotions can hurt more than physical pain a lot of times actually words can really be painful. All humans have emotions and should be taken more seriously.
I can definitely see how people would be very tempted to take this route, especially if they've been with that person for several years and it's hard for them to imagine life without them. But, even though there will be excruciating pain for awhile, things do get better with time and I urge anyone with these thoughts to just take one day at a time, allow yourself to grieve the relationship and process your emotions, and then begin trying to move forward with your life. Yes, it will be hard and painful, but it will get better and the wait will be worth it!
I have to say that I don't understand the idea of committing suicide over a break up. How could a person's life have no value other than a relationship? That's the true definition of dependency.
I understand how painful a breakup can be. Been there, done that. There was one particular woman that I lived with for over a year. I loved everything about her with my entire heart and soul. We broke up for reasons that are complicated. But afterwards I literally felt like I had been kicked in the guts. Sometimes the feeling almost made me nauseous. It took me a year to pull myself back together.
But I never considered suicide. I figured that the breakup wasn't going to kill me. I'll die sooner or later but, in the meantime, I'll just experience life. There is so much beauty, awe and wonder in the world. And who knows what the future will bring? A couple years after that breakup, I met my future wife.
How horribly traffic for your family! An event like that never stops impacting your life.
I always thought that the suicide of a romantic partner is a strong indicator of an immature conceptualization of relationships. It is a childish and sometimes passive-aggressive response to the breakup.
People need the Lord. These people are not worth death, hell, getting hurt, losing your salvation, your life, personal happiness, etc for. When you align your life with the things of God, you won't have to worry about those people like that. It doesn't mean you're not going to get her, doesn't mean you're not going to feel anything. But they are not the center of your life. The problem is that people choose to make other people the center of their lives instead God. So they start thinking that either that they have that person or they lose everything. And sadly that's where satan comes in to sell the lie, and then people do it.
I'm deeply sorry for your loss as well for anyone else whom lost someone they deeply cared about due to this situation.
I've been hurt/abused/taken for granted in all the relationships I've been in. Currently dealing with a jumble of emotions this very moment. I try to not let everything flood at once and break things up a step at a time in terms of recovering and realigning my life for MYSELF. A breakup/divorce - any form of separation from someone with whom you love is heartwrenching. But the pain is something one can heal from if they allow themselves, and if needed, there is help.
Hope that time has mended things. Death isn't easy, and with your personal situation, I can only imagine the multitude of emotions you went through. I can relate, my mum's passing wasn't easy for me and there are days where I think about her for hours on end. I hope that your mum and yourself have been better - sending positive vibes your way!
Thank you again. It's been nice because I've had distraction but I have many speckled moments where I think of him and have a heart tug. The worst is when I wake up from him being alive in a dream. The dream makes me think everything is alright and I wake up in the reality of what it is...
And it has been over a year too...
One day at a time... But I am waiting until I can have my one big cry for him. I still have not experienced that yet
I'm sorry for your loss It's a sad situation. My brother attempted this for his first girlfriend we managed to catch it in time and pump his stomach we were very mad at him to be honest we told him that was a rather selfish thing to do. We're upset with him because he was clearly doing this as a attention seeking and in his case he wanted to be caught. He kept telling my father and the doctors to call his girlfriend to let her know It causes great pain for the family. I personally would never do it because there's too many people in the world that are special to me to leave behind because of one person and break ups are part of life and a break up might lead to a better relationship. Unfortunately some people are hurting so badly that they don't think clearly. All we can do is forget them and remember the good times we had with them.
As most people on here could tell I took my break up badly although it didn't make suicidle it sent me into a deep depression. So people take it as a failure of being human and can't face life with that on their hands then there's always Broken Heart Syndrome which could pass as suicide.
I think it makes sense to become depressed and feel inhuman when the person you loved breaks up with you and moves on while you're stuck to being alone and unsure whether you'll be able to open up yourself to another person again. You lose trust in people.
When my ex randomly broke up with me I don't remember contemplating suicide but I definitely remember crying for one a week straight and not beibg able to really function or do anything.
I was a suicidal person till meeting my recent boyfriend, because I was facing with insecurity, depression and abusive parents before. I don't know what will happen if we break up (hope we won't 😔) but if I do something stupid it won't be caused by breakup but my previous worries that I tried to cover
It's heartbreaking and indicative of underlying or often undiagnosed mental health issues... It's seen often in the Military due to cheating spouses and it's just awful... My heart goes out to those who have been impacted...
Its a proven fact some people get so attached to their partner the break up drives them insane, the toll of a broken heart is too much to bare. @lemiaofthecodes what do you think?
It’s a real tragedy. One of my classmates in high school committed suicide because his girlfriend broke up with him. everyone was really shocked and sad about it... it’s terrible really
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I think it happens WAY more often than people realize. Cheating, breakups and rejection can really push guys over the edge. There's so many times I hear about murder suicides or shootings and people say "I don't know what happened, he seemed like a nice guy." I think to myself "I know exactly why he lost it." People really don't care about guys who get rejected, cheated on or dumped by women. There's no respect or help for them.
That they need to get help by called the suicide hotline and take safety precautions. Even after an episode. They same feeling can arise again and they need to learn to handle it
Damn, That is awful. I don't like when people threaten to kill themselves in order to prevent a breakup but those who really do it are in pain and they're not being manipulative
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