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Should I breakup just because he’s a bartender? (Page 3)
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This is all in your head. If he is a good and decent guy he will not cheat on you. If he is a cheater it does not matter what he does for a living. I dated a bartender for a while and guys were always hitting on her. She was not interested.
Well, I think I understand what you are saying, but if you feel that way, maybe there are major trust issues, and if there's no real trust in the relationship, that's never a good sign. Maybe you two should talk about it or at least share your insecurities with him, honesty is everything.
I think you should get therapy before getting into a relationship with anyone. A guy who wants to cheat on you will do so regardless of his job.
Well, it's better to break up now than put him through all those insecurities
I agree. Thank you
Bartenders talk a lot but i doubt he’ll cheat. Theyre too busy. If anything, he’ll flirt to get his tips. Thats normal, he just better not let me catch him doin it
Don't be ridiculous. He's not going to cheat at work. He would likely get fired, and have no job. Don’t let your head get into your head, its a mistake we can all make.
Yes, you two sound incompatible. It is ok to not date people who have jobs that are issues for you. He has one of those jobs so unless he is going to quit then you two should split up.
It seems unreasonable of you. You will REGRET pushing guys away just because of small things about them. Its not a good idea to do.
No- this isn't a problem with HIS occupation.
This is a problem concerning YOUR problems with everyday living!
Consider calling 1-800-A-FAMILY to talk to someone who can refer to a professional for some guidance.
You do realise drunk people are annoying as fuck when you're sober. And worrying about it will not stop it happening which more than likely will not. What proves is you don't trust him
Very intelligent answer. Thank you. I’ve never drank and I’m 28 now. So I guess I can’t comment on what it’s like however he gets drunk on shifts because he gets bought shots and drinks cocktails he messes up and stuff. So would being intoxicated lead more towards someone cheating?
Working behind bar have clean up and it's Loud can hardly hear what people want to drink never mind talking wanting to sleep with them
You think if a guy had an office job, he can't cheat on you after work or on his lunch break? If the guy treats you good, you're dumb if you break up with him.
The guy is a moron to be dating you any girl that’s proudly states her own problems as Exide insecurities I will run for the hills the first second I would’ve met her!
He’s a fkin loser!
‘Proudly’ is a bold word.. Have a nice day
Do you think that he should break up with you if you were a bartender?
That's up to you. I work in the industry and a lot of my friends are bartenders and most of them are actually very wholesome but there are some who are questionable. It really depends on the person.
It's up to you whether or not you want to find out and continue to let your anxiety get to you.
You are sharing your insecurities with him and it will fit affect your situation one way or the other be careful and express this to him.
It's not really about his job or him, in general.
You're simply paranoid & insecure.
Christ you sound like a headache, just dump his ass.
You can't blame him for your trust issues. If you can't accept his job. You need to break up with him, but don't put the problem on him! You need someone professional who can help you with those issues.
Yeah I understand that to a degree, I probably wouldn't marry if I was a soldier deployed overseas for a long period of time, who knows what my wife would be up to, that's tough.
it turns you on at the same time.
That's why you're dating him, you know hotter women are gonna want him.