My ex dumped me. I left it. He flirted with me at a party. I lost it later that week. I confronted him about how he dumped me using a cop-out, blamed me for things I had not done, spoke to me disrespectfully, flirted with me after the dumping etc. He refused to apologise and began listing reasons why he considered taking me back but wouldn’t (all but one to do with other people). He was very hypocritical. I lowered my self-respect dramatically in pursuit of closure. I felt I needed to if we were to be friends. He had to know how he was hurting me. He blocked me instead of wanting to work it out. We socialise in the same group of friends. I feel so guilty taking us from friends to enemies. I feel guilty for being unable to control myself. I was screaming at him. I’m scared he’s going to remember me for all the wrong reasons now.
Is there something I can do to remedy this situation? Should I feel this guilty?
Is there something I can do to remedy this situation? Should I feel this guilty?
