Why is My ex is delaying on giving me my stuff back?

[Anonymous]

Me and my ex broke up not too long ago, maybe 2-3 months ago. Anyways In the beginning of the 2nd month I contacted him I had asked if he had any of my stuff at his house and can he please mail them to me. He said yes and he will. I gave him my moms address because I will be expecting to move soon. A week went by and he contacted me asking if I am using my moms address and I said yes and that’s that. 4 days later he messaged me asking if he can personally drop it off to me at my place. I told him he can drop it off at my place and where to place it at , I live in a gated community. He asked me what days am I available to retrieve my items. I said no I don’t wanna see you. He then asked “ I crave you” 😑 he said he still think of us having sex. I’m wondering if he is using my stuff as hostage to communicate with me or to get sex. I already decline him.

[Anonymous]

He is defo holding it as a way and mean to communicate with you! Tell him you'll meet him when he drops it off and just slam the door in his face or ensure you have someone with you so he can't try anything. Keep putting your foot down with him, what is it you need, anything you can take legal action on? x

[Wise4myage]

He's probably doing it out of spite and hate. I say the hell with those items and tell him he can do whatever he wants with them.

[Anonymous]

Tell him you want your stuff back and that's that.

[Pterodon]

Because you allow it

[Asker]

I allow him to delay giving my stuff back? Howso? Please explain

[Pterodon]

You have legal options but you’d rather play drama Queen games

[Asker]

And what options are those?

[Asker]

Calling the cops?

[Pterodon]

And litigation. So how bad do you want your stuff or are you just whistling Dixie?

[SecretGardenBlood65]

No have idea