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What is worse: getting your heart broken and finding out that you ex is happier or being lonely watching happy couples pass by and wonder?
That's how I personally feel ๐
Being lonely easily is demoralizing. At least you HAD a partner, so you have something to hang your hat on. When you're single for life, you start asking yourself questions nonstop. Eventually you sort of grow numb to the pain and confusion of it all.
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I don't know... never experienced either of those things
my ex-girlfriends being happy is a great thing for me, because they're still my friends
Seeing a happy ex would be worse, especially if I was still in pain from the things that happened with that person.
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Why would I be heartbroken if I knew my ex was alright? If you really loved someone, you are gonna wish that person the best Why would be heartbroken with see couples passing by? They are living their life. None of what you mention has to do with an ex or couples living their life. It has to do with how you're dealing with the reality of been without a romantic partner. Before your romantic partner you had a life; you had your own stuff going on. A romantic partner may keep or not keep with us. Either way, a romantic relationship should never be define as a goal of excellence, rather than a opportunity to share your life with someone else at an intimate level.
Being heart broken is an experience and something we grow and learn from. The latter is not.
Why is the latter different than the first?
You don't gain experience by watching other people enjoy relationships. Breakups cause you to evaluate yourself. Breakups for me usually resulted in some newfound hobby to help me move on. What people see is a new life skill. But what they don't see is how incredibly personal the activity means to me.
Oh, well I mostly suffer from the first one and I don't really know how fix it ๐๐๐
Effects from Relationship failure. Focus on career or a goal and itโll all come together. Girlfriends are one little piece of puzzle.
Best advice here. This is exactly how I dealt with my broken heart a some years ago. Focusing on yourself and becoming a more improved version is the best thing one can do for their life. But sadly, not everyone has this intrinsic drive. And getting into new relationships would be far easier as you'd be more attractive to the opposite gender.
@TruthBringer thanks. Iโve been at that same crossroads. It pretty much moved me right out of any leftover boy into man.
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