Anybody else have this happen?

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Has anybody ever been in a relationship that you thought was going good only for the other person to ghost you never to be heard from again? This has happened to me and it sucks. Over memorial day weekend too. We been dating little over 2 months, no problems and got along great. We met each others families and all went well. Talked about our future and moving in together. Both wanted the same things. However this past Friday she went ghost mode. All she said was bye and blocked me on all social platforms and won't return mine or anyone's calls. Feels like I been blindsided, I didn't see this coming. Looked her up on my sons FB and status is changed to single and the only new person she's added since we started talking is an ex fiancee she split with 6 months ago. I'm not mad, little upset but I wish she would've said why she wanted to split up. Anyways, has this ever happened to anyone else?

HollyK21 · Accepted Answer

Sorry you’re going through this, genuinely. My best advice with breakups (even ghosting) is to take try taking something from that situation and apply it to how you act in the future. I totally get being caught up and excited in the honeymoon phase, but unfortunately with this I feel like you kinda set yourself up. 6 months apart from her ex fiancé totally sounds like she was rebounding, and the biggest red flag was how quickly she was willing to move on with you. How do you go from engaged, to talking about marriage and family 6 months later with another person? Come on. Maybe she thought it was done for good I don't know, but people who want to instill that sense of familiarity and closeness with you before taking the time to build it is just too strange. In your next situation I wouldn’t even have expectations for the first 2 months.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Everyones been ghosted before.
At least you know this chick isn't worth much she can't even communicate when things get tough. The bitch jumps ship. Sorry this happened to you. Plus you can't be all that surprised as she was only single for 6 months especially when she was going to submit to someone her whole life. Ya know

melnc · Accepted Answer

Whatever happened, you dodged a bullet that could have cost you a lot. You should thank God that he showed you the truth about that girl before it was too late. You have every right to be angry, just don't let what happened get in the way of living your life.