I'm still in love with my ex. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

My ex is still the love of my life and no matter what I do I can't get over her I need advice on what I need to do.

[SueShe]

An ex is an ex for a good reason.

It always takes 2 to separate and while she seems to be the one having made the decision to become your ex, the action is not just based on a decision she made from one second to the next.

If there was a separation, then it is because there was an underlying cause for it. Ask yourself what this reason (s) could have been and what could have been done to prevent it from happening.

It was her decision to separate and there is nothing you can or should do to attempt to get her back. Love is ephemeral and at your age, it can be replaced without too much difficulty.

Just remove anything that could remind you of her. Things such as pictures, trinkets and other memorabilia have no place in your life anymore. The more distance you put between her and yourself, the quicker you will be able to forget her. Go out, take up a hobby or join a club to change your mind.

[Anonymous]

You just have to be strong and know everyone is replaceable.

[Asker]

My whole family was planning for us to get married and stuff and then out of the blue she tells me that she wants to break up