Why my LD boyfriend ghosted me instead of breaking up when just less than 2 weeks ago he said he wants to visit me, he likes me?

[Deimy]

[Anonymous]

How long is it been since he “ghosted” you , have you send him messages what’s wrong etc?


Probably he found someone else or he thinks it’s hard , LDR works out only if you make a proper plan let’s say soon you move with him or he moves with you !

[Deimy]

2 weeks he did not even saw my messages, he is active but for a little short of time like 10 minutes and then again not active for 2 days he suddenly or not saw one of my instagram stories

[Opinion Owner]

Hm yes sadly that’s a ghosting! I thought maybe it’s few days like up to 7days! I think he somehow can’t man up and tell you how he truly feels maybe that he isn’t sure he wants to continue this relationship. Don’t be sad really I hope you forget him asap. Try to connect with other guys too. If he comes back don’t fall for it right away unless his parent died and he is depressed then maybe you can evaluate..

[Deimy]

Thank you, dear, it hurts so much but I hope.. His last message was :" Well yes I see what you mean… thing is that I switched myself back to off after all that happened…. I don’t get feelings that easily but I let them out after 2/3 months with you and at that point you hurt me and we’re not into me so I started switching off and now I totally am off sentimentally speaking…" as I said he told me this after less than 2 weeks when he said he really interested, does not want any other girl... but he works 11 hours per day , he used to say he always tired has no time for himself and always have " to prove himself"..