Its too late for us even after apologizing?

[Anonymous]

I was angry at the moment. I insulted him and blocked him. After days in pain, I realize my mistake. I unblocked him and he blocked me back immediately. At this point, I understood that he was hurt. I write him a message on another platform apologizing and telling him I wish him well. No answer from him. Is this the end?

[Anonymous]

Only time will tell, but this could be a good sign to work on controlling your emotions and finding a healthier way to respond to things that hurt or bother you in the heat of the moment. I also think it’s a sign but maybe to two are better off as friends. I’m guessing you’re not in a relationship because there was no breakup just blocking, but the fact that you say hurtful enough things to each other to be pushed to block is not good. You don’t want the person who puts you in that position.

[Asker]

Thank you so much

[AmandaYVR]

There's no way for us to know that. It's up to him.

Have you learned your lesson that impulsive blocking is bad? That's what needs to come out of this.

You were able to contact him through another platform, so you have that benefit here. He may come around. If your apology was good, genuine, heartfelt. If not, you can try again.

[lightbulb27]

my wife and I had stuff like that before we broke up, got back together 6 months later, battled it out... then decided to move forward. all going good now cruising along. love and relationship is a battlefield sometimes. Everyones issues I think are different, the details you know.

Answer: maybe, unless you decide to fight for it, or one of you does.

the communication methods today are counter productive and frustrating. It's like relationships need "Glenda the Good Witches to guide them)

[Asker]

The point is that I'm hurt by him too. I see now that he had unblocked me, but still no contact

[lightbulb27]

right, you were hurt by him, so you hurt him back, he... doesn't understand that, so blocked you, but then unblocked.
One heck of a dance.
My wife said when you communicate do so in love, with loving intention. I know that's hard sometimes, it's a goal. Strategy to implement that is to listen carefully to the other and improve communication.
The last thing we want to do is to stab each other with words, not understanding or caring if it hurts the other, to later realize it does. Is better to understand what hurts the other and not do that to protect their feelings. Thats where we have to learn about the others wounds, conditioning and understand.
There's a submission aspect to relationship as well... the woman is right... except for times she's wrong.

I hope that helps. I said maybe...:) But either way, there's some work to do. I think that's semi normal, some people fit together really well with low friction, a lot don't. Both are ok if you work it out, sometimes low friction is not good either.

It's your life... lmk if I can help.

[Asker]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it

[JamesDiaz11]

Probably.

What did you say to him? If you challenged his masculinity or his character he's probably not going to forgive you.

When girls get heated they'll sometimes say things like the guy sucks in bed, or their ex was better, or that they're a loser who will never accomplish anything- and while I can understand being upset, and wanting to land some serious blows, when you do this the guy will NEVER forget it.

[Asker]

no, neither of them, but anyway hurtful words. He unblocked me but isn't writting

[Tekashi_Rosas]

I believe he is, it’s normal to get mad in a relationship, but blocking someone…… most guys will have enough of that or get triggered or get their feelings hurt and just end it there.

[In_Trance]

yup, move on