Does this mean it’s time to give up and he no longer loves me?

[Hannahbanana94]

Husband and I have been going through problems and fights. It takes 2 to tango even though he seems to put the blame on me. Anyway he wanted a divorce and started going out to the bars every weekend and sleeping in spare bedroom with minimal communication. It’s been a month and he's still sleeping in the other room. The other day after talking to him he said let’s try and make it work and then the day after he totally flipped his mind and said he didn’t love me and to stop trying yo convince him. Then his birthday is this weekend and I asked if I should come and he said yeah. But then again he’s still barley speaking to me. Sleeping In guest bedroom. I don’t understand, if he wanted to divorce wouldn’t he have filed already? He hasn’t kissed me or touched me in one month. The longest we have ever gone without ANY intimacy in 10 years. Does this mean he doesn’t want me at all? Or do I need to give him more space and stop trying to fix it?

[boggboss]

Yeah sounds like it's over

[Hannahbanana94]

Then why hasn’t he filed? Why come
Back and move in house and tell
Me to come out for
His birthday? I don’t get jt

[boggboss]

Sounds like he is dragging his heels doing so

[Hannahbanana94]

He didn’t have to invite me. He didn’t have to move back home…. I just don’t understand. Can a man really still love you but show zero affection for a month?

[boggboss]

I dont believe he does love u

[Hannahbanana94]

I feel like his anger is clouding his judgement. We had a baby together and have been together for 10 hears

[boggboss]

And your relationship have been breaking up for a long time with your inability to forgive him its not just come out of nowhere

[Guy13]

He is done.