I'm in a long distance relationship and from the first hello, he's been very busy. He works and is doing his master's degree. We make video calls on a specific day of the week. But I feel frustrated. During the week he sends a text at 9 am. I answer. And then the next message will be 3 pm or 7 pm and when we see it, the day is over and we haven't really talked. I really understand busyness because I have an equally busy day. But I miss better communication. I like him too much. And he also from me. But I don't know if I can handle it in the long run, because the distance itself is already difficult and someone without any time too.
Have you like, talked to him about it?
Are you on same/almost same timezones?
LDR is hard. Having a huge gap on timezones makes it harder.
Communication is the key, maybe try to "schedule" a "couple hour" over the weekend?
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LDR never works... why are you wasting your time?
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Be the same way to him, the situation will easily flip. I have a lot of experience in LDR, and if one person becomes clingy, the other starts to ignore. This works vice versa as well, start ignoring and the other gets more interested. If not, its time to move on.
Long term distance relationships don't work as you both have your own lives apart from each other. If he doesn't have time for you due to school then just leave him.
Are you and him planning to see each other irl this year?
Dump him
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