Did I make the right decision by ending things with my boyfriend, because he was refusing to change?

[Anonymous]

We are (were) in a LDR. I told him several times, how certain things made me feel, but he kept on doing them. I just ended it and he blamed me for it, since it was my decision to break up.

[BCRanger10]

If there are things you want and need from someone you're in a relationship with and they are unable or unwilling to give them, then it's best to move on. Though I'm curious to know what these "certain things" are that you're referring to.

[Asker]

For example, he had started delaying replies for several hours without a legitimate reason. It became an everyday thing, and he was acting like it's normal. It wasn't like that before.

[BCRanger10]

How long had you been together and when did this start?

[Asker]

We've been together for more than a year.

Almost two months, more or less.

[Tracker1958]

You wanted him to change to suit you but did you change to suit him?

[Asker]

When I say change, I mean he was delaying replies for hours without a legitimate reason, when before it wasn't like that.

[Tracker1958]

Petty thing to be all upset about.

[Tracker1958]

We think about what we are going to say and how we are going to say it before we say it. It sound like you did him a favor by dumping him. Your one less headache he has to deal with. I will say thank you for him.

[Anonymous]

To change what exactly?