This feels a bit weird to say because it's not typically how I word things. But I need advice on how to boss up in life?

[Anonymous]

So, basically I was watching a vid on youtube and they were talking about bossing up after a breakup. Now, I had a girlfriend back in sophomore year in high school and broke up quick and I mean quick. I feel like ever since then, I haven't been the same. Then I dated a girl from last year in September until this year in August. I put a ton of energy and time in that one. But now I feel empty and tired all the time and I am looking to make a change in my life. Like toughening up mentally and emotionally, getting my money up and any other way you all can think of. I appreciate the help

[Guy13]

Are you full-time employed.

[Asker]

well, I was but like around a week ago got decreased hours at my job. So no, but I am curre

[Asker]

currently looking for a full time job

[Guy13]

Yeah, that will put a dent in your self-perception. Get that straightened out and Bossing Up life ought to be in the Past.

[LazerBean]

Sounds like you're on the right track. I think a good one would be building up the relationships you already have with friends and family.

[Asker]

I can try that, but it can be hard to do somewhat. Especially with some, they always compare me to my cousins and their friends kids' and it just makes me not want to be by any of them. But I know in order to get better in life I gotta do that. I had this friend that used to work at my job and he gave me advice to just be myself and be genuine. But it seems whenever I be myself everyone has a problem with it. Like I make jokes and everyone takes it serious. I buy like a pair of shoes I like and some people are happy and some people are extremely hyped about it. It just gets annoying