Why does my ex look mad and avoid me when I show up when he made it clear he didn't want to marry me? I broke up with him?

[Msnsns]

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I was the one that broke up with him because I didn't know where our relationship was going and his constant probability of us not being together or "if it doesn't work out, we will both be okay". I responded after the breakup with anger and apologized to him. He forgave me but now he's so cold towards me and looks angry or sad when he sees me

[Breanna_nonbinary]

I’m sure he feels rejected and embarrassed and regardless of why you broke up you have become a trigger for those feelings. I wouldn’t take it personal because we are all responsible for our own feelings. It better that you found out now that he acts childish and irresponsible of his own feelings.

[Msnsns]

You think so?

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Yup. Seen it happen a lot.

[TJ1892]

Because depending on the time you guys were together and the age he may feel severely let down you didn't give him the adequate time to be comfortable and content with the idea everybody wants to get married at different times depending on a variety of different factors not necessarily solely down to the fact its was yourself or the relationship itself.

[Msnsns]

So you're saying he felt like I wasjt patient enough? We were together for 3 years and me 29 him 24

[TJ1892]

24 is young, I'm 23 now and the idea of being married in a years time is somewhat daunting. 3 years a good amount of time but in way of marriage he'd probably of wanted to of waited for the right time in his scenario and life.

[Msnsns]

Yeah but I'm much older and I made it clear if that's not what he wants let's just end things. I'm not waiting around. He mentioned so many things he wants to do but I'm in a different mindset at my age

[TJ1892]

Then perhaps the timings were not right, but that's more on you than him if he was happy and willing to wait.

[Msnsns]

But I have friends that are 24 and they're engaged. They're younger than me and sure of what they want