Is it fair of me to tell an ex that the time I spent with her was the happiest I've ever been?

[Anonymous]

I dated this girl years ago (ie. the 1990s) and since we split I have thought about her on a fairly consistent basis. With social media, etc. we reconnected several years ago and I have had the urge to reach out to tell her that, while I regret not fighting harder to stay together, I truly appreciate the time we spent together. While I was with her was literally the best time of my life

We have both moved on with our lives, so I am in a conundrum as to whether it would be fair of me to drop that on her, or am I being selfish and trying to get closure on that part of my life?

[Avicenna]

If either of you us is in a relationship, you shouldn’t do that

[Keishio]

More than likely she won't care and her response will be uneventful and likely painful to realise you were the only one still with some attachment

[Guy13]

I woukd

[On_cloud_wine]

You also would invite all your exes to your future wedding..

[Guy13]

I would reach out and let her know how you are feeling. It will not mean much to her romantically but she will know that you are decent and she will appreciate that about you

[Nikki1989]

Nah, just move on from it.

[Anonymous]

What’s her love status right now?

[In_Trance]

Bruh...