LDR fight the other day trying to save it but I don’t think it will work?

[Breadman432]

So me and my girlfriend broke up before but she wanted me back cause I guess she loves me a lot we been together for a year and a half but… we just got into a fight yesterday I told her will we ever meet she said I’m young I’m 19 I ain’t ready yet. I said okie that’s fine. But I texted her during school she got really mad and I just blocked her cause it hurt what she said and I really don’t think it’s going to work I do love her but she is going to tell me soon if she wants to break up or not cause I asked her u really want to be with me we live so far LDR is so hard 😭.

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Hey guys I just feel bad what can I do should I just block her and say it’s over I just want to talk with someone but it’s hard.

[HollyK21]

LDR only works when there’s a silver lining, and some plan for the distance to end or at least be able to see each other. So for her to say she’s not ready to meet you should tell you everything you need to know about whether it will work. It can’t be distance forever and/or never meeting in person, that isn’t fair to you and honestly not very practical.

[HollyK21]

Also the fact she’s not ready to meet you because of her age and not for some other factor, like maybe it’s too soon or something. That’s just ridiculous.

[Breadman432]

Thanks for ur answer i will think hard I don’t like when a woman takes time to think of an answer.

[Breadman432]

I mean like takes to long to decide it makes me worry to much especially long distance

[Breadman432]

Yeah fr I thought that too

[Breadman432]

I literally asked her like in the future I didn’t say now 😂

[HollyK21]

But that’s the thing, she’s not telling you she’s still deciding what to do, she flat out said she’s not ready to meet because she’s 19. Like what are you supposed to do with that? Hope she’s more ready a year from now? It isn’t optimistic and gives you nothing to look forward to. I know you have strong feelings for her, but don’t let love cloud your good judgment.

[HollyK21]

A relationship is pointless when you can’t actually be together. Yes LDR is hard, and it only works when you have something to work with. As of right now, she has no intention of meeting you in person, just keeping things online and to me that’s like a fantasy relationship. You want something real.

[Guy13]

LDRs never work and are a waste of time.

[WhitneySnow]

If you love her try and work things out. Talk to her. But also respect that she’s not ready to meet yet.

[Breadman432]

Thanks I will try that