He broke up with me. What do I do now?

[tempirl2012]

Last night, My boyfriend broke up with me because i went through his phone and texted the female he was talking to. First he gets another girl pregnant, stop talking to her for me now he's talking to someone new. I'm so upset. I dont know what's going to happen now. I did drive pass his baby moms house to see if she was going to his house but i guess she wasn't there. He did invite the new female over and she stayed the night. Smh im so in love with him that i will do anything to be with him. What do i do now? I know he's with other women but i just want to be put first.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a difficult time after your boyfriend broke up with you. It's understandable to feel upset and confused after a breakup, especially if you still have feelings for your ex-partner.

However, it's important to recognize that going through your boyfriend's phone and contacting the other girl was not a healthy or respectful way to handle the situation. Trust is an important part of any relationship, and violating your partner's privacy can damage that trust.

In terms of what to do now, it's important to take some time to focus on yourself and your own well-being. This could involve spending time with friends and family, engaging in activities you enjoy, and practicing self-care. It's also important to reflect on what you want and need in a relationship, and to consider whether your ex-boyfriend's behavior aligns with those wants and needs.

It may be helpful to seek support from a trusted friend or family member, or to consider talking to a therapist or counselor. They can offer guidance and support as you navigate your emotions and make decisions about your next steps.

Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness in a relationship, and that putting yourself first is an important part of self-care and self-love.

[Anonymous]

You should have seen this coming. How you get em is how you lose em. I'm sorry but you should have listened to people's advice and leaving him. You still aren't listening which is really sad. He doesn't respect you or truly love you so you should just get over him and move on.

[tempirl2012]

I was with him first.

[Opinion Owner]

Well that's even worse. When he got the girl pregnant you should have left then.

[tempirl2012]

He don't know for sure that's his kid. But he did tell her he thinks he's the dad.

[Opinion Owner]

Even so you still should have left. He still slept with someone else while y'all were together.

[tempirl2012]

Well if i don't know if im pregnant by him now. We don't use protection either.

[tempirl2012]

I* dont know if im pregnant by him now because we didn't use protection neither

[Opinion Owner]

Get an abortion if you are. You don't want or need that drama.

[tempirl2012]

Okay so she should keep her baby and i should abort mine? I've been with him almost every day. He dont even want her around

[Opinion Owner]

Do you want him to do the same thing he's doing to her to you? Because that's what's going to happen.

[tempirl2012]

He probably will. But She obviously doesn't care since she sent pictures of herself with another guy while she's pregnant. She's a mess too just like him.

[Opinion Owner]

Then you dodged a bullet. Be thankful.

[Anonymous]

Oh my goodness. You need some serious help. First you are harassing the girl who is pregnant and wanting to fight her so she would lose the baby. Now you are stalking her. Leave her the F alone

Forget the guy and go and get help. Fmd

[brandon1122]

Sometimes I'm like how did these people even make it this far in life. They are so immature omg

[Opinion Owner]

@brandon1122 I think this girl is gone beyond immature and gone bat shit crazy

[brandon1122]

True

[shades777]

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