I met up with my ex girlfriend yesterday. She was crying for an hour and she is clearly not over me but still doesn't want to get back together? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2023-05-29T06:47:08Z

long story short we were dating for almost two years and we were madly in love. She made plans for the future even though we are really young. The last two months of our relationship were a bit rough but still we loved each other and had good time even though we both felt we were drifting away. One day we passively broke up, she told me yesterday that she never thought that we would break up that day. I tried to get back together three days after we broke up and promised I would make things right this time but she rejected me and she seemed really cold and adamant that we will never get back together. We've been texting a bit through out this month and she has been really hot and cold, until yesterday she agreed to meet up. This time I didn't cry because I just wanted closure and wanted to open my heart to her. The moment I started talking about our relationship she started crying for like an hour non stop. She gave me no answers but she told she wasn't over me. When I said that I want us to get back together she told me that would be a step back and she wants us to move forward. Still gave me no real answer why we can't be together. I told her that I will respect her decision and move on but I still love her and whenever she is ready to not hesitate to call me. She then told me with tears in her eyes that she can't handle it and has to get home and just left crying without giving me any explanation. She then texted me to apologize for leaving like that and couldn't give an answer. I really love her and want to be together with her and I know she feels the same way. I can't understand what did I do and irreversibly destroyed a beautiful relationship. I treated her well and respected her even though we had trouble communicating and couldn't handle certain situations because of the immature nature of our relationship. I really don't know what to do at this point. I hope she is ok but it seems she is trying not to get in touch with her emotions.

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😂😂😂😂😂she needs reality check

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what a waste of time

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- Asker
  
  11 mo
  Maybe for you. I have some problems and seeking advice no reason to chime in
  
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- In_Trance
  
  11 mo
  You want advice?
  Stop talking to your ex.
  It ended for a reason
  
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- Asker
  
  11 mo
  Two people that lived together for two years and were in love need to end things maturely. All I want is closure and the reason we ended things from her point of view
  
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- In_Trance
  
  11 mo
  Closure is overrated and her point of view no longer matters. 2 years in the grand scheme of your life is next to nothing. You were in high school longer than that
  
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- Asker
  
  11 mo
  You might be right. However I still love her and I'm pretty sure she feels the same. And if there is a big issue that prevents us from being together I wanna know and then move on
  
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