Why would my ex husband want to meet at 12 am at a park to talk about visitations arrangements?

[Alwayreckles93]

My ex called me and told me he wants to talk about child visitation something that we could go over on the phone or meet at a mall foodcourt and talk about. According to him he wants to keep it personal and not to bring no friend or my boyfriend around. Later I got a huge cramp pain in my stomach isnthis normal? Why at at 12am not during day time? I asked him and he just says he likes to keeps things privet.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would NEVER advise a divorce client to meet under these circumstances. Tell him that you are willing to meet midday at a coffee shop, or you can simply discuss it over the phone. If you meet in person, take someone with you (who he doesn't know,) have them enter the coffee shop separately and sit away from you but within sight, and if he starts becoming belligerent or aggressive at all, call your friend to come join you.

This is an extremely suspicious invitation!

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes this cool chill came into my spine.

[OlderAndWiser]

Trust your instincts!

[Gent207-2]

HOIST THE RED FLAG

This is how every domestic murder-sucide begins. Your ex needs to pick a more optimal time and be accepting of a neutral eye-witness.

Please save and document all electronic communications. Do not record without consent

[rosemilk]

girl no... that seems like a terrible idea! and it seems like he has bad intentions. i'd get a lawyer if he wants to talk about visitation arrangements. don't meet up with anyone at 12am at a park, not even your ex husband.

[Alwayreckles93]

Girl you are right. I told him over the phone whatever he wats changes we will take it to court.

[TrueConfection]

Did he ask you to bring a shovel?

Sounds like he doesn't want to pay child support anymore. You need to insist on meetings to be held in a crowded place and get there 30 minutes early.

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes , I told him whatever is important we should takenthe situation at court. He did get upset you would of tough at age 31 we would handel this like an adult.

[Alwayreckles93]

*He would have

[zeitgeist057]

@TrueConfection that was where my mind went, he's looking to murder

[TrueConfection]

You really need to document that request, date and time, and make copies. Leave one at home, once in your car, give one to your attorney, etc.

[Alwayreckles93]

Thank you yes I spokenwith my attorney.

[Alwayreckles93]

Thank you I appreciate your advice.

[SnowedIn]

BS is his reason. That is so sus as to be amazing. That's so not safe. Meet in broad daylight in a public place and record the conversation. It may be helpful in court some day.

[Alwayreckles93]

Thank you my gut feeling I feel something just doesn't seem right.

[Staximus]

That sounds really shady. There's no reason for him to ask you to meet in a park at midnight alone unless he's planning on doing something bad to you. Call the cops and file a police report.

[Alwayreckles93]

I got this chill cold in my spine. My gut feeling is telling me something is weird.

[Anonymous]

Wants to sex or to get revenge. This is very suspicious don't go.

[Alwayreckles93]

My gut feeling is telling me something isn't right.

[slatyb]

DO NOT AGREE TO THIS. You do not have to meet with him at all. Is there court-ordered visitation? If he wants a change he can request it in writing by text or email.

[Exterminatore]

I would not advise doing that. Seems awfully strange. I’d do it in public during daylight.

[Alwayreckles93]

I had this chill cold in my spine. My gut feeling is telling me not to. I told him we can take it to court and I mean he did really get upset.

[Mansearching]

Don't go. Always meet at a crowded place. Bring boyfriend and have him at a distance so he can watch.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Easier to kill you and take your body somewhere private to dump without witnesses.

Whatever his reason, it's not a legitimate one.

[Alwayreckles93]

Yeah I was creep out its safebto let the court handel it.

[RealMarek]

Don’t meet him alone or during the middle of the night. Better yet, ask him to call you during the day. Or even better, ask him to email what he is wanting to suggest.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Don't do it. Always meet in public during the daytime. Haven't you ever seen Forensic Files? Dateline? He could make you a victim really quick.

[Likes2drive]

Sounds like the beginning of a crime movie where the woman is never to be found again. I would never do that meeting and what park is open that late? Definitely don’t do that meeting

[MementoMori777]

follow that instinct feeling, its saved my life plenty of times and people i know of

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m glad you chose not to meet him. Your safety is obviously more important

[DaveJord]

Wow, that's freaking scary!!!

[red_knight]

Wichcraft? Lol

[Alwayreckles93]

I believe in tha too. Lol

[red_knight]

Trust your gutt feelings

[Alwayreckles93]

Believe me I dnt plan on going im contacting my attorney.

[red_knight]

Smart

[JustinTheGreat]

That sounds really suspicious…

[RHK36]

Don't be reckless and go. Shit sounds suspicious.

[Wise4myage]

Well, his reasoning makes sense.

[EaterPeter]

@DubiousIntentions

[DubiousIntentions]

Why are you tagging me?

[EaterPeter]

It seemed easy to answer that way. Hope haven't offended you.

[EaterPeter]

Wound that be a correct answer to her question?

[DubiousIntentions]

So, the guy had dubious intentions. Now that makes sense. :)

[EaterPeter]

And I get to tag you so 🙂

[EaterPeter]

Wouldn't *