What is the gain from treating me like shit?

[Anonymous]

So myself and my ex girlfriend still live together for the time being and she is rude practically everyday multiple times a day. Why is this she is the one who initiated the breakup by the way so why does she still continue to treat me like shit even though there is no relationship in place

[AmandaYVR]

Who knows. We don't know her.

Some guesses...

• She's bitter and acting out emotionally.
• She thinks you deserve it for making her suffer.
• This is how she feels and she can't hold it in.

It's not logic, of course. She's not thinking about gains. She doesn't care about how you feel any more.

You both better end this living arrangement asap.

[Asker]

Definitely didn’t make her suffer actually it was the reverse most of her family accused her of abusing me. She has also hit me twice in the relationship

[ArrowheadSW]

That sounds just like a lady who I was dating when I was in my mid-twenties. Ultimately I think she was taking out on ME, something that other people did. It certainly wasn't right on her part. There was no resolving the issue, as I didn't even know what the issue was.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

She sounds like a crazy bitch. What do you expect?