My long-distance relationship (3 hrs away) was 4 years long, and it had its fair share of ups and downs. He ended it over things that could've been solved/discussed. I requested if we could contact each other still after the breakup, and he said sure. But, a couple of days later, he said "Let's do 30 days no contact" and I asked "What's the plan at the end of the 30 days then?" and he said, "We can be friends." Throughout this, I was still in contact with his mom and a couple of mutual friends that told me he was planning on moving to a new state in August knowing that I was coming to his city for a couple of months for clinical rotation.
34 days passed and I went through a roller coaster of emotions, and I finally texted him since he didn't initiate contact with me. We discussed his reasons for the breakup, I listened to him and empathized only even though I did want to say more things. A couple of days later, I texted him saying that I respect his decision to end things and to have a good day, and he responded by saying "I'll text you later today" to which he didn't and I had to initiate contact again. We tied up loose ends I guess in that conversation and we haven't talked since. Regarding reconciling, he said "I can't answer that now, but for your sake let's say no" which I don't know what that means (maybe letting me down easy?) He said he was uncomfortable with friendship. He mentioned "check-ins" to which he said he was unsure about that as well when I could sense that he didn't want to do that either.
There's an app for our cars that his family put me on, and we can see where everyone is since it's only used for emergencies. I see that he's already in that new state now, and I'm not sure if he's only there to visit family or if he moved. His mom said that she will let me know before he leaves so I can have a conversation with him possibly.
What's the likelihood that we will reconcile? I'm so confused about all of this, and can't tell what he truly means
