How could my ex boyfriend get over me so fast?

[Anonymous]

Please no mean replies.

Me and my ex broke up almost a month ago. Always lots of arguing. We have to see each other everyday which is pretty painful.

The first week we checked on each other to make sure both of us are okay. He then stopped calling and so did I. Then we started again. He would call me saying he’s extremely depressed over the situation etc. Then when he saw me happy, he started coming around again saying he wants to try giving it another chance and I declined. This went on for about a week. He said no matter what he would always love me deep down and be friends.

We then got into a massive argument on the phone a week and a half ago when he found out I was seeing another guy , and it was never the same since and we blocked each other on everything.

I then tried to fix things yesterday because I don’t want him out of my life, just for him to say he’s completely moved on from me, he wants to be single and to leave him alone.

Did he mean this, or was he just trying to hurt me? I am so devastated over this situation.

[Jkgordon]

You clearly answered your own question ; LOTS OF ARGUMENTS I don’t know about you, but people that love themselves don’t like wasting time arguring you need to start loving yourself like your ex boyfriend

[Gent207-2]

He never loved you

You deserve better

[Asker]

Why do you say that? I don’t really believe that to be true..

[Gent207-2]

Then you will keep repeating this cycle of heartbreak until you decide you deserved better

[Asker]

I think the cycle is over. I think that was pretty much decided yesterday. But why from this story do you think he didn’t love me?

[Asker]

It was a 3 year relationship

[Gent207-2]

If he loved you he would've fought for you. He would've chosen his battles better and would've learned how to forgive and forget for the sake of the relationship

[Asker]

The problem is he has fought for me many times. But we got trapped in a never ending cycle. However for him to just say he’s over me and has moved on and doesn’t want to be friends after a bad phone call when he found out I was dating again, doesn’t make any sense. I don’t know if that was said to hurt me or if that’s really true..

[Gent207-2]

Sounds like it's done and over

[Asker]

I guess it is. I didn’t know a man could get over someone in the span of a couple weeks after all that he said to me. Lol

[Gent207-2]

In HS I literally broke up with a girl and asked another out. Then later at the football game that girl broke up with me.
It's possible

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true however that seems like it all happened very quickly. We were together for years, and did everything together. I’m not comfortable with it ending this way especially when we have to see each other basically everyday. He’s also said lots of mean things before in anger so I want to believe that this is one of them. I just don’t get why he wouldn’t just leave me alone, why he’d try begging for me or checking up on me after the breakup.

[Asker]

On the phone call that basically ruined everything he said I wasted his time, he’s scarred mentally from arguing everyday with me, then on the other hand he seemed upset that I was talking to other guys, trying to move on. It just doesn’t make any sense :(