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I discovered my boyfriend is addicted
Id like to know how others won the battle
Im 99.9 close to end everything with him
I need to talk to ex drug addicts?
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Sorry end it!
Been there and it will never get better like you want it to! Not a movie it's the horror show ones!
Ups and downs and hating you when in withdrawal! Hating you after! Tempted then okay for a week... then drugging again
Over and over till rock bottom then stops... 2 years then tempted stressed and on drugs!
If your almost done then end it! Huge road ahead and he... he has to truly want to stop not just say what you wanna hear!
Not an ex drug addict but a lot of my friends growing up were... family was and is... and my best friend died from it!
Like a evil spirit the drugs have a dark hold that you can't understand how deep it is over him! Even pot... which so called every one does changes your mind to need it like eventually more then food or water or breathing!
Being extra dark cause drugs are evil and I have seen it completely change people's lives many times!
I posted a question
Can you read it and read my asnwers and help me , please
Thank you
Here its: I left him while he was smoking cr@k? ↗
He says he feels like shit and angry when he does it after
But won't do anything to stop it
That is the cycle of a drug addiction especially crack!
What you went through cycles every time!
He only feels that way when he is missing you off the drug for a bit and even if your there or not there the cycle goes on... soon he will just do it again!
He showed that he won't stop or try to help is not seeing it as a bad thing so RUN!
My childhood was that cycle with my uncle!
His true feeling showed when you left! That is his real personality there! Not who you see being happy nice to be with and the one you fell in love with!
Those are the lie and fleeting as you know!
But his personality is amazing when he takes 0 drugs, he shows me love but it changes when he is high on tha shit.
He is suspicious paranoid tries to see double meaning in my words.
My words make no sense to him even if i say some basic stuff like:" looks like its going to rain, so many clouds"
he goes:
"So many clouds? where? why are you opening curtains? close it right now. why are you suddenly interested in the sky and clouds? why are you staring through the window?"
I mean... its fucking heavy. Its nearly literal , we do have this type of "conversations".
So i keep quite, i won't even speak. Anything i say he gets suspicious, he stares at me. Asks if he can trust me.
Its fucking madness😔😭
I couldnt take it anymore today i left. Came home and cried for 3 hours. My head hurts all day.
I sent him a messages if he needs anything he can call and wishing him his puking goes away.
He just put a ❤ reaction and thats it.
On Sunday he tried to make a fight out of nowhere. First he didn't like my tone, then my smirk... which was normal by the way.
Then he threw a temper tantrum thinking i dont wanna go see his friend who came from Brazil, even after i said no problem we will go see him!!!
He continued trying to see a problem:" yeah but you rather do other stuff, right? right? you dont wanna go?"
He also says im good for him because he doesn't want to lose me and i keep him from drugs
He wants to be better
But still he won't go see doctor... just numbs it with drugs. Says he is afraid his puking is some cancer or smth.
I am sorry but you should walk away from this. When you date a drug addiction you will never be first priority. It will always be drugs that come first. In ten years you will look at what he has done with his life and you will be glad you moved on. They never give it up completely.
He says he wants change
He swears to God, right?
Well he cries
yesh that too.
What i do then?
Iwanna help
listen kid- there is no helping him. I know it is sad but it is the way it is. These substances have a way to rewire your brain. They always think that it is something that can always go back to. Find somebody who wants to live a good clear life. You are a nice kid for wanting to do this but there is no way it will end well for you.
But why not?
He says he wants to change
they never give it up/
He said he wants to be healthy he wants to go to gym and get strong for me
why are you still holding on to that.1%? obviously this isn't okay with you and that.1% is insignificant. just break up.
I love him
You dont understand
no, i do understand. you are doing yourself a disservice. he doesn't love you enough to get off of drugs...