Girls. Have you ever been in a LDR or just a long term relationship and made the decision to cut things off? Did you rebound straight away and sleep around for a few months? If yes, why? And was there any point in which you nearly went back? Or did you indeed go back to your ex? What changed your mind and feelings of wanting that person back?
lots of questions I know, I just want an insight into the female mind in this scenario. I’ve recently been through all of this and I’m very much a person who needs rational thinking to explain things and cope and move for adds methodically.
What Girls Said
I broke up with my LDR boyfriend a couple of years back, we were already taking breaks before it came to a break up so I was pretty much emotionally prepared already. I ended up having a rebound with this one guy but I was still emotionally closed off and hurting from my break up.
I did reminisce about the good old days with my ex but it will never work out so the thought of getting back together never crossed my mind.
I did, it was long distance and he was narcissistic. Yes i wanted him back n gave him chances hoping things will be different but it wasn't so i i left him despite loving him.