Like this girl broke up with me and is really upset that it isn’t hurting me. She has even resorted to saying I’m bitter when we have an argument cause we still live together. So she has to vocalize it to herself. I have no idea what this is I have never really heard of someone doing this
Have you ever broke up with a guy then got mad when he wasn’t hurt or depressed?
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If I broke up with a guy I would not want him to be depressed, because I believe the first rule of a relationship is, you must not harm the other person, the second rule is you must help or bless the person or honour or serve the person.
I'm going to talk, from her perspective (not saying you are wrong, or bad). From what I can see she may feel like you never really cared about the relationship you guys had, so she is very bitter and upset about that idea. She sounds like she really did care for the relationship at the time, but maybe also you are a sensible and logical person who does not let emotions get the better of you, and see reason. She sounds very emotional to me. If you are daring, you could vocalise your opinion to her and state why you are not reacting the way she wanted you to.
I have also heard of girls faking a "break-up" to see if the guy will come back asking for a chance. I guess this is linked to self-esteem issues too within herself, and not your problem.
I just gave afew rough ideas why she is acting this way. But overall she seems very emotional. Best to leave her be for a few weeks and see if she cools down
It’s like she wants me to feel depressed, I’m checked out on it because if she doesn’t her way she breaks up this is like the 3 or 4th time she has wanted to break up which was decided it was final but trust was eroded long before now.
Sounds like you have dodged a bullet, hopefully my explanation helped to see why she behaves the way she does. These kinds of people you want to avoid, they will start petty drama and make YOU feel bad in the process!
Yeah that’s another thing she has done she has been the person continually triggering the breakups, then gets mad at me because I’m not feeling upset it’s like it’s honestly mental abuse.
She also is really good at only telling one side of the story or the part that makes her seem good
Yeah just dump her. She has issues and they are not yours to manage!
You are probably coping. It doesn't hurt to get broken up with if you don't care about the other person, so you convince yourself of just that. Have you ever seen someone kicked out of an establishment? " I didn't want to eat here anyways" they may say when everyone knows thats not true. It's to protect your feelings.
No it’s like she wants to see me down