Growing up and learning that letting go is a part of life. Lingering is just regret and that's a waste of time. Realized better to use your head over heart in those moments because being logical helps you move forward.
for the girls dont do that too often cause you'll be a slut and become romantically unattractive, instead work ok yourself get some more friends work up some more money
I realized she probably does the same thing to every other guy. She's probably someone else's nightmare now. After a certain point you just kind of shake your head and smile. There was a guy shortly before me, there was me, pretty sure another one or two shortly after. All within like a 5 month period. Let's just go from guy to guy to guy and not put any effort into anyone of them. Glad I never had sex with her. Damn hoe
Anyone else finding that online dating apps seem dead? I got kicked off tinder and only have been on one date since February. I used to be able to go on a date every week or two if I wanted.
Music.. Friends.. and keep busy.. I was dating a Woman who to me was way outta my league. She kinda knew that and used it to her advantage and ended up cheating on me. I kept busy with friends, music, and the gym..
Well she made it easier for me. She had an event in her life that kept her out of mine for 6 months. And that gave me time to clear my head. When she came back she no longer had the mental hold on me. She tried to regain it but I stonewalled her at every turn. Then she started stalking me. Which felt good after the s*** she put me through. Finally after 2 years she gave up and blocked me. Sometimes I wonder if it still bothers her that she never got closure, maybe she got over it. I can only hope she didn't. But at least I have the consolation of knowing towards the end I gave as good as I got.
You just have to make a clean break. Cut everything off and move on with your life. Surround yourself with friends and family and get back into you like to do and get back into life. That's the only way to do it
Quit romanticizing the qualities about him that I loved and look at the relationship from a third person outsider view. It made me start to realize how shitty of a boyfriend he actually was to me, right now currently I’ve just also been improving on myself. Working things out in therapy, working out in the gym, eating right, doing things I love
I lost my virginity as a freshman to big man on campus (Smart, very good looking, and rich) and it didn't take him long. I knew and was told what he was like, but I said he will be different with me. He wasn't. He dated me for a while and dumped me for the next pretty and foolish young thing. So now I am a soiled woman with a lower sexual market value. However, it wasn't a total loss, I got an education.
So, what did I do? First, I was hurt, next, I was furious. Then I realized that life goes on and I must make the best of it. Therefore, I resumed dating other guys. Perhaps, I can't marry as good as I could have when my sexual market value was higher, but I can still marry a quality guy.
Girl sexual market value is not a thing, you can definitely get a really good guy still. Most men won’t give a shit that you slept with a douchebag once
Loads of meaningless sex over a number of years including several gangbangs and a threesome.
In my case my ex cheated on me so that was my way to attend to my needs. Yes it was using a lot of women but most of them where aware that was the deal beforehand!
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Growing up and learning that letting go is a part of life. Lingering is just regret and that's a waste of time. Realized better to use your head over heart in those moments because being logical helps you move forward.
As A Dumper, Thanks. xx
one word for the guys- fuckaholaottabitches
for the girls dont do that too often cause you'll be a slut and become romantically unattractive, instead work ok yourself get some more friends work up some more money
To Be So Young... lolxx
are you implying anything?
I realized she probably does the same thing to every other guy. She's probably someone else's nightmare now. After a certain point you just kind of shake your head and smile. There was a guy shortly before me, there was me, pretty sure another one or two shortly after. All within like a 5 month period. Let's just go from guy to guy to guy and not put any effort into anyone of them. Glad I never had sex with her. Damn hoe
Anyone else finding that online dating apps seem dead? I got kicked off tinder and only have been on one date since February. I used to be able to go on a date every week or two if I wanted.
after one, i cried when i got a "match", so i knew i wasn't ready but still by meeting her anyway, i moved ahead to a fresh start
That is How I Began The BreakUp. xx
Having a good final clearance with her to feel like you have put and end to that chapter with an easy mindset!!
Indeed!!! xx
Hehe 😁🙃
Music.. Friends.. and keep busy.. I was dating a Woman who to me was way outta my league. She kinda knew that and used it to her advantage and ended up cheating on me. I kept busy with friends, music, and the gym..
my Yoda. xx
LOL THANKS
I always kept myself busy because I was always striving to become successful.
I see... xx
Get somebody else into my pants as soon as possible.
lol Um... I Follow. xx
Limited contact to None. Staying far away as possible.
Thanks, My Yoda. xx
Very welcome
Paris, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else! ;)
Hello BOOB MAE. lolxx
Hahaha! Hello Paris! Long time no chat! :P
Well she made it easier for me. She had an event in her life that kept her out of mine for 6 months. And that gave me time to clear my head. When she came back she no longer had the mental hold on me. She tried to regain it but I stonewalled her at every turn. Then she started stalking me. Which felt good after the s*** she put me through. Finally after 2 years she gave up and blocked me. Sometimes I wonder if it still bothers her that she never got closure, maybe she got over it. I can only hope she didn't. But at least I have the consolation of knowing towards the end I gave as good as I got.
Find someone else. Only way that reliably works
Ahh, To Be Young. lolxx
You just have to make a clean break. Cut everything off and move on with your life. Surround yourself with friends and family and get back into you like to do and get back into life. That's the only way to do it
That All Fooled Me. lolxx
I'll help you do it 😉
Talking to friends and avoiding him as much as possible
Great!!! xx
accepting that i would never fully get over her, and that this was ok
Find The Truth in Getting Turned OFF!!! xx
Quit romanticizing the qualities about him that I loved and look at the relationship from a third person outsider view. It made me start to realize how shitty of a boyfriend he actually was to me, right now currently I’ve just also been improving on myself. Working things out in therapy, working out in the gym, eating right, doing things I love
I lost my virginity as a freshman to big man on campus (Smart, very good looking, and rich) and it didn't take him long. I knew and was told what he was like, but I said he will be different with me. He wasn't. He dated me for a while and dumped me for the next pretty and foolish young thing. So now I am a soiled woman with a lower sexual market value. However, it wasn't a total loss, I got an education.
So, what did I do? First, I was hurt, next, I was furious. Then I realized that life goes on and I must make the best of it. Therefore, I resumed dating other guys. Perhaps, I can't marry as good as I could have when my sexual market value was higher, but I can still marry a quality guy.
Girl sexual market value is not a thing, you can definitely get a really good guy still. Most men won’t give a shit that you slept with a douchebag once
Loads of meaningless sex over a number of years including several gangbangs and a threesome.
In my case my ex cheated on me so that was my way to attend to my needs. Yes it was using a lot of women but most of them where aware that was the deal beforehand!
Cut off all contact with them and do things that you enjoy
Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. xx
Thank you 😊
I found somebody who is so much better than my ex
My EX who Is Still Family and a Roomie. lolxx
Paris, you need to get out more.