Yes, you should. The fact that you were drunk and breaking up still doesn't justify it.
You don't have to label it "verbal abuse". Just explain that you know it was wrong, you lost your head, and you don't really think those things about her.
Men seem to more easily tap into their anger, but the other emotions they tamp down more. It's good you know you were wrong, and were being hurtful to her on purpose. Now tell her that. It doesn't have to be a long conversation, but she should hear this. People carry a lot of emotional baggage around with them, and it affects society, jumping from person to person.
s Leave it. You said some horrible things and she likely does not want to hear from you. Apologising will not come across as sincere while it’s still recent. Give it some time and perhaps try to apologise in the future, otherwise for now, leave her alone.
Depends on how you do it, since you could end up doing it again. I would be straight forward and not bullshit it. Also, only do it if the intentions are to help her - not help yourself feel less guilty.
Anyway, she is an adult and I seriously doubt it traumatized her. She won't likely open up again about her ex as easliy to anyone else, but she'll lick her wounds and move on.
She's your ex so you don't owe her shit unless she first apologizes for disrespecting you. Don't simo and give her the satisfaction!
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If Anything, Apologize At least. xx
Apologize if she is willing to listen
Dude it’s over. Why would you apologize? What good is that going to do? The relationship has ended.
Sounds like she and her ex-husband are still emotionally involved.
In which case she was never committed to you anyways and wasn’t really a partner in the relationship.
Move on. And make sure she takes all of her things. All of them.
Are you genuinely sorry? If yes... then apologize. If not, don't because it's a waste of her and your time. Leave her alone.
Relationship is ended so nothing to worry about there. What this really boils down to is your answer to the following question. Do you feel bad about what you said and did? If so then yes. If not then don't bother.
Yea it shows better character to admit and apologize for the wrong than to fall into ignorance and childish games all because you lack the balls to stand up for your mistakes.
yes, and stop disabling your nervious system.
doesn't mean it changes anything. The underlying issues need to be dealt with.
Leave it. If she doesn't react to the apology like you want it will trigger you to insult again and it will make it worse.
You shouldn't apologize unless you care about her feelings. She can't expect you to take everything lying down, if you'll pardon the expression. If you said something inappropriate try to stay calm in future.
I don't think she'll forgive you but apologising is the adult thing to do.
I wish you nothing but the most miserable, lonely life imaginable.
You lucky she don't squash you like a bug with that big fat ass of hers.
Yes, but accept it's over. Don't do it as an attempt to win her back.
Let’s be honest here: You had those thoughts for a while and you finally got the chance to say that to her.
She will paint you as the villain no matter what.
dont even bother
Yes, apologize, in writing, not in person.
Be the bigger man and apologize
YOU COULD
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