My ex returned after 2 years?

[Anonymous]

My ex broke up with me 2 years ago despite my efforts after 2 months of our break up the new year had arrived so I celebrated her new year hoping to start a conversartion she didn't even reply after 4 months I texted her and told her that I miss her so much practicly begged her to return she told me if I ever text her again she will call the police, after 1 year and totaly 2 year of our break up she texted me but said only want to be friends with me and refused to talk on phone arrange a meet up the thing is I still have feelings for her and its a messed up situation I dont know her intentions and I dont know what to do so I need some guidence

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

A woman who can dump you and live without you perfectly well for two years, is not a woman for you…

Get over that pussy, there are millions like her out there and get some brain in your head. Do you really think she’ll treat you better this time?

Women don’t love men they pity, and she’ll pity you, she’ll disrespect you and she’ll hurt you further, because she knows she can. In the end, you’ll be left with your heart broken and with your time wasted. Have some brain for god’s sake.

She ain’t have a magic vagina.

Friends…

No, smartass, you can’t be friends with a woman you had sex with and you still have feelings for.

Don’t take her back, unless you want to listen to her stories of how she dates some other men. You can’t be friends with her.

Better to realize it earlier.

I am a woman and I know the game she’s playing. Don’t be silly.

[Dreamclouds]

Lovely advice even if the reality is harsh!

[Inbox]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 I hope cloning becomes a reality soon because the West is in desperate short supply LOL

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@Inbox Haha, just saw your reply. Who are we cloning? 🤭🤭

[Inbox]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 You dummy

[Rhizomorph]

Bro why would you even consider taking someone back who says “if you ever text me again, I’ll call the cops”… also: the fact she said she just wants to be friends and even refused talking on the phone and even meeting up, a message that clearly states: “I’m reaching out to you to be friends but I don’t give af to really be your friend” she’s prob just tryna cover her tracks to make sure she still has you as an option if her other current pursuits don’t work out.


My suggestion: start doing the work to detach from the fantasy you have about her. To undo the imagined scenarios of a better life/better love w/ her because holy god, I know she is a stranger to me but she does not seem like someone who would genuinely love you for you.

[Joshydavid25]

You definitely should get over her.. She broke up and you begged her for months.. And now she's back and she friendzoned you.. Definitely ain't worth it.. I know this girl probably meant a lot to you, but it's best you move forward.. You can't be friends with her.. She probably missed you a little and wants to keep you around in case whatever she has going on doesn't workout probably.. She didn't even want to meet up..

[Avicenna]

If you still haven’t gotten over her, it’s not helpful to be “friends” with her

[Asker]

You have a point but do you really think becoming friend is her real intention

[Avicenna]

I don't know if she actually wants to be friends, but she definitely doesn't want to get back with you, and that is what matters. Anyhow, if she isn't interested in meeting you, it's unlikely she even wants to be friends. Any contact with her is likely to be disappointing for you and therefore bad for your emotional and mental well-being.

[bolverk]

Keep her at a distance, the only reason she called you is that she sees you as a fall-back, some one she put on lay-away, you may still have feelings for her but if another guy catches her eye she'll be gone again in a heartbeat, keep your distance from her, move on if you can,

[Iron_Man]

She should never have told you she would call the police anyway she texted you if you want her back befriend her

[Asker]

I want her but as a girlfriend

[Iron_Man]

Good

[Asker]

Do you think being friends with her can open a path to become a girlfriend again

[Iron_Man]

Yes sir

[Asker]

Thanks

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome

[exitseven]

Run away. Keep running Nothing good will come of this

[Anonymous]

More texting fails. Amazing how people on here just never learn.

[Anonymous]

Dude she told you she would call the cops on you. She's crawling back to you now that she's run out of options 🤦🏻‍♀️

[bededazzle]

ignore her

[In_Trance]

block her

[Asker]

Wish it could be that easy