Why my ex who dumped me called me with his new number after 4 months of no contact?

[Anonymous]

he dumped me 4 months ago. he told me to never contact him again. this month i saw missed calls from unknown number later i got to know it was his phone number. what could be his intentions?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is pretty weird for your ex to randomly call you like that after demanding no contact for so long. A few things could be going on:

- He could be feeling lonely or nostalgic about your relationship since some time has passed. Maybe he's having second thoughts about breaking up.

- It's possible his new relationship/situation isn't going that great so he's seeking validation from you or wanting to compare.

- He might just want to test the waters and see if you're still hanging on to him in case he changes his mind. Some guys like the ego boost.

- Could be he left something at your place when he moved out and needs to grab it. Although seems like a lame excuse to contact an ex if that was the case.

I'd be careful about getting your hopes up if I were you. He dumped you pretty harshly before. If you do end up talking, really assess what he says and how he acts. Make sure his intentions seem genuine before opening your heart again.

Protect yourself sis! His timing is definitely suspicious. Just be wary and don't let him mess with your feelings unless he proves he's serious about reconciling long term. You deserve better than games!

[Anonymous]

You don't know what you got till its gone.

[Asker]

do you think he regrets breaking up with me?

[tierrlamé]

dont answer

[Asker]

yeah i did not call back him

[tierrlamé]

good