and are you happy you did
I had a very amicable split, but I was not the one who initiated it. I am the sort who would have stuck the marriage out because I am committed to my word. But now, I am very happy that she initiated the divorce that I never would have. We were not happy then, and I am much happier now.
I never thought marriage was a good idea, but I got caught up in romance. I am a helpless romantic, so I thought I would dive into the dream of it. Now, I have been down that path and I may have a partner for life, but I will never do the traditional legal marriage BS ever again. If we want to be together for life with someone, we can just do it without all that legal contract nonsense.
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She changed the (unspoken) rules between us in such a way that 'advantages' were shuffled towards her only, and obligations (in terms of loyalty or contribution) away from her.
I feel comfirmed.
On d-day I heard from her:
" I gave you my best years of my life"
I responded: "And I didn't?"
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My partner wanted the divorce. We had grown apart. The divorce was amicable and actually good for both of us... we've each gone on and found others for long term relationships. My ex-wife and I still get along, and occasionally see each other at family events.
My wife had gained a lot of weight and I felt like I needed to cheat on her to meet my personal needs. I started listening to Andrew Tate and he said it was okay for me to cheat with a skinnier woman since my wife had gotten fat. I’ve always considered myself a high value man because I’ve been able to sleep with any woman I want while being married. Well, Tate says that if you’re a high value man, you should be allowed to sleep with as many women as I want to.
I explained all of this to my wife and she got all feminist on me like how can I do this after saying our vows. I told her the most important vow is the vow I made to myself to never settle in life. She then selfishly stormed off.
So you could really blame the whole divorce on my wife being a feminist
I had no choice at the time , she left , but now very happy she did , I can't imagine it any other way.
Strangely enough she sent me a note out of the Blue the other day , it's 25 years ago.When some lying bitch tells me she wants all my money and the freedom to sleep with as many guys she wants and I should not have a problem with that
I know that's the time to pull out the rifle from the safeShe cheated. When the last kid moved out, I moved out and sold the house. The last few years have been the best years of my life
he divorced me, I still don't know why :D but at least I know that if he didn't start the process I would do this
Their non-existence got to me after a while.
The abuse was too much.
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