I regret ending my relationship?

[kimmber8239]

I've been thinking a lot about my recent conversations with my mom and regarding my relationship with my ex-boyfriend. I ended things because it felt overwhelming, especially since I wasn't able to see him much due to the boundaries i have at home. My mom said that I didn’t make a good decision so I decided to end it with him because she was upset and I care how she felt , but I'm also trying to navigate my own emotions.

When I told my mom that I ended things with him she said why did I do that, i said it was way to much, but she said oh I don’t see the point of doing that it’s ur life and it left me a bit confused. I thought she would be relieved, but she saying why did I do that and I responded because i can’t see him because you won’t let me go by myself and she didn’t say anything so I said it again and she still didn’t say anything I have mix feelings. I'd really like to understand her side and when I do she say oh it’s ur life I’m confused now. And regarding ending my relationship just for my mom would be happy now I feel like I did it for no reason it at

[Finchie40]

Sadly your Mom has a control over
You that you are going to have to put an end to , Understand you are your Mom’s baby and you will
Always be her baby , even when you are 40 years old , I know you don’t want to hurt
Your Mom’s feelings but when it comes down to your personal life choices and decisions your Mom is either going to accept it or not , Your Mom didn’t say a word because your Mom knew she was wrong. So next time she tries to control your decisions put your foot down to her and tell her I make my own decisions and I will suffer the consequences of my own actions. You are 18 years old so you are considered an adult for the most part , so it’s time for you to let Mom go and not let her control you anymore

[Iron_Man]

You don’t have much experience with dating you shouldn’t end things if you’re confused you have to try to work things out

[kimmber8239]

I can’t work things out my mom won’t let me I want to but I can’t

[Iron_Man]

Look what you said here about your mom she said it was your life so call him back

When I told my mom that I ended things with him she said why did I do that, i said it was way to much, but she said oh I don’t see the point of doing that it’s ur life

[kimmber8239]

Ur right i ain’t going to lie I’m texting him right now when she said that I was happy I just hope she won’t try to guilt trip me because i went back to him

[Iron_Man]

Go for it
good luck

[kimmber8239]

Thank youuuu!!!

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome

[c4rtm4nroolz]

Feels like you were pressured by your mother & she did not want to take the blame afterwards. I think you’re right in ending it though because it seems like you make choices based upon how others feel.

[kimmber8239]

Thank you for understanding she almost called the police because I was with my boyfriend and i didn’t tell her that made me panic but at the same time the cops would tell her that I’m 18 and I can make my own decisions a cop told me as long as it’s not force they can’t do anything because my ex co worker was trying to put him in jail sometimes I don’t feel like I’m living my life I’m just here for them

[Abbycado]

Ok, so what are we answering here?

[kimmber8239]

Anything I guess I’m just expressing my feelings

[Abbycado]

Unfortunately, we make mistakes. You have to live with the decision and move on.

[Avicenna]

There's no substitute for talking to her

[RavVid]

If it is relatively recent you could possibly patch it up. At 18 it is easier to break up and reunite.

[strateguy632]

she is right don't go by yourself