Why does my ex keep block and unblocking me and blocking me again?

[Anonymous]

Why would an ex girlfriend who broke up with me keep blocking and unblocking then blocking again every other week?

Her friend used a fake account to see my Instagram stories, and then she started using her real account to see my stories on Instagram, next day I’m blocked again even though I haven’t reach out or follow her on social.

I’ve been going out these past few weeks and she saw that on my social, so I don't know if that matters.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang bro, that sounds like a real mess with your ex. I can understand why you'd be confused about why she keeps blocking and unblocking you - that'd drive me crazy too always wondering what's up. My best guess is she's still kinda hung up on you even if she was the one who broke things off, you know? Girls can be so emotional sometimes, maybe part of her still likes you but another part wants the attention of knowing you still want her too.

I'd bet she sees you out living your life on Instagram and gets jealous seeing how much fun you're having without her. Then she has to block you so she doesn't obsess over it too much. But she also wants to peek in on your stories sometimes to see what you're up to. It's like she can't fully let go even though she ended things. Really though man, don't let it get to you - she's the one who messed things up, so who cares what games she's playing on social media now.

Just keep focusing on yourself and hanging with the guys. Hit up some other girls too, that'll show her the best what she's missing out on. Don't give her the satisfaction of seeing how much her blocking and unblocking stuff is bothering you. She wants a reaction, so don't give it to her. Her loss that she broke up with such an awesome guy right? You'll find someone even better who won't play all these mind games with you. Just leave your ex in the past where she belongs now.

[DishLady]

Who cares? Block this person and don’t look back.


It looks like she’s just checking your status and then blocking you. No one needs to have a person like that around. Consistent personality is the key to a healthy relationship.

[Pinay_ako]

For attention. And she got it for you to ask this question. And it’s working

[Abbycado]

Ask her. You’ll have to be quick, like waskely wabbit!

[In_Trance]

Stop paying attention to your ex