My ex boyfriend gave his buddy my number. What do I do?

[jennifer1312]

I dated this guy for about 3 months. I was being told that everything was great. He had just been through a divorce and he said that he was very lucky to have found me. He took me everywhere and introduced me to all of his friends and family. Then out of the blue he calls and says that he needed space. I was very upset. That weekend he deleted our pics from his MySpace page and even went as far as to crop me out of one and post that pic as his main profile image. I was shocked. I haven't tried to contact him at all. This weekend his buddy calls me and asked me out. I asked him how he got my number and he informed me that my ex gave it to him. What the Hell??? I just think that is so unclassy and a direct blow to me. I feel like my ex is saying that he never cared about me at all!!!

[ladykay]

That's a real weird way to break up with a girl. Hopefully, you weren't in love and it isn't too much of a blow to your heart that you broke up. He just sounds psychologically-off. Like he is blatantly telling you that your break-up is nothing to him.

Good thing you broke up and aren't building your relationship any further with this weird-o. He just sounds strange, especially passing you to a friend of his like you are leftover's on his dinner plate of women.

I would try avoiding his friend too. Your ex may still want to be in your life through this friend of his and I would steer clear of them both. Anyway, what the heck is his friend thinking, unless he is looking for one thing from you. Real men know how to respect a woman and his friend should have had some feelings about the way your ex passed you to him like meat.

Hopefully you guys don't share the same circle of friends and you can move on. Sounds like he has some excess baggage from his divorce and he is looking to hurt a girl. There is no need for that in your life. Good luck in finding a real gentleman.

[jennifer1312]

That's exactly how I felt when I got the phone call from his friend ..."leftover's" that he was finished with!!! It hurts A LOT! Thanks for the advice. It helps to hear other's point of views!!!

[jeannine1708]

I agree with ou. I had the same thing happen to me. Myex" gave his numbr to his 55 year old friend. Iam 30 and my "ex" is 26 I felt very disrespected like he was trying to hurt me.

[greta17]

Girl, I'd give a shot for the guy who called u! I'd imagine ur ex face expression, I'm not saying you should try to make him jealous, but show him that he doesn't worth your time and ur strong to get over some asshole like he is. Seriously talk to the guy who called you and maybe hang out with him if you don't have any negative feelings for him. I mean life moves on and as the moments in it get bad they also get well and improved! :) And every time we keep meeting better people than the ones who chose to leave our direction!

[Evilbegining]

Well this might be something to look into first before jumping at the guy who called you.

What if, by chance the guy that got your number really liked you and when he found out that you and your BF had broken up he called your Ex and ASKED for your number. In that case it would have nothing to do with your Ex giving the number, merely that this guy liked you and had no other way of getting a hold of you.

Now that might be something to look into.

Next your Ex is a @ss, something happened that made him change his mind about you however he went about dealing with that in the absolutely WRONG way. Everything you said he did is completely wrong and frankly rude. If I was you I wouldn't want to have anything to do with him as he obviously has no sense about him and would only get worse the longer you knew him. To be honest it sounds like he found another girl more then anything which is just sad =(

[drivenhollow21]

He didn't you were his rebound sweetheart is sucks but most guys do it to get out of the divorce slump they are in.

[kingbrother]

It doesn't sound like he did, he sounds like a big liar. Move on.