Should I pour my heart out? Or do no contact for sometime?

[kykysk3]

Hi, I'm really sad, I broke her heart 2 months ago and its been more than 5 weeks I'm trying to get her back.

Out thing has been improving, since now when we see each other, we can smile, say hello and talk without any pressure.

The thing its that maybe she's seeing someone else..

Even tho I know deep down inside she still loves me...

I did 3 weeks no contact at the beggining and then tried to get her back , but back then she was mad at me.. so her anwser ofcourse was not! And I guess even if she forgives me, I have to give up a lot so she could really see a change and that I really love her!

So now I don't know if I should give her more time to think or something even tho she's too proud to call me even if she wants me back, probably should I fight for her? be more romantic and pour my heart out?

Please help me I need to keep going, I'm really sad just to think that she might be seeing someone else. It really hurts, but I love her and I wanna spend the rest of my life with her.

Thanks

[Arwens-Fire]

If you care this much about her,stop playing games and tell her.The more time you wait,the more time she will have to get over you and find someone else. If you really love her,you would risk being completely vulnerable and tell her that you screwed up and want to try again. Be sincere and be honest.You can sit and pine over what she maybe doing,but if you never communicate any of this,she will never kow how you feel.

[Arwens-Fire]

Also,the no contact rule is stupid.That should be used if you are trying to completely move on with your life WITHOUT the other person.Its a way to forget them and heal.I haven't really heard of many stories of people just sitting back,watching the time fly and magically the individual wants them.Its ridiculous and just anothe way of trying to cover up actually being honest and vulnerable.

[Anonymous]

If she is playing games to just make it look like she is over you, this makes you want to pour your heart out? If a girl loves you that much she might just be waiting for that sincere apology. But I also know some girls who refuse...no matter how much they care, to take a guy back after he messed up.

Just be sincere, quit the game playing.

[kmode01]

stop contacting her, girl say they want to see you change meaning forget about them forr liittle while and focus on you! go to the gym to wrkout you fustration. get extra hours at wrk and keep busy but dnt call her for at least a month trust me she will come around to know why you arnt chacing her anymore, and women love men who are jerks like that

[kykysk3]

But I did it allready , but It really didn't work! =( 3 weeks didn't contact her, she didn't even gave me a call or anything... It's really hard you know.. I made a mistake.. Now its been 2 months and a week, and she's seeing someone else, I'm scare that if I don't contact her, She moves on.. and be with the other guy...

[kmode01]

then I think its time for you to mve on and find somome else.. and show her you happy with out her! she obviously does care for you and I'm not trying to sound mean.. its jst the truth..

[Cuminginside]

So you played around and you play too long Now you got to play elsewhere.