Found out that my brother's wife cheated on him recently?

[Anonymous]

I found out that she has slept with my cousin a few times, and I believe it because he's one of those douche bags who likes to hook up with married women. My brother has been married to her for 7 years now and they have 3 kids. I'm really close to him and can't stand the fact that he doesn't know anything. I really want to tell him what's going on because knowing this is bothering me but at the same time I know that he will be hurt and he will fall apart.

Should I talk to him, or should I let it go because it's really none of my business (that will be so hard though). If I talk to him, how should I go about it?

[NoobRage]

Are you kidding me? "None of my Business" Listen.. As soon as you have learned about what had happened between the two it became your mission to fix this mess.

Obviously you don't want to go straight to your Brother because that could cause a whole bunch of mess. You want to be very... Cunning with this. You need answer's before you can move to your brother.

Id say start with your cousin.. Talk to him about the situation.. Ask him for the truth everything that happened if it happened.. and if you feel your cousin is not a guy who could be trusted.. then move in with a different approach.. "I know what you did with my sister in law and don't F*#9ing Lie to me" Although that could have some consequences if nothing did happen. If you feel you don't want to take the chance with that talk it over with your brother's wife..

Two women speaking very subtle over this situation could be very powerful.. But some situations might arise where she might.. ask you NOT to tell your brother.. but deep down you and I both know.. That is Integrity... You need to tell her (if this situation is true) that no matter what... You will inform your brother sooner or later and if she did commit this Ha-nus act... her love for your brother must be powerful.. For he could not forgive her for this, But if you feel she should be accepted for her Acts.. You should encourage your brother to accept her...

I tried to foretell future act's based on current happens and things that have happened to my life and other lives whom I'v dwelled in. Please tell me if there's something you would add in to this or take out or do differently and why.

[Anonymous]

Tell him.

If you were in this situation and someone else knew about this, would you want them to tell you? I know I would. Yeah, it's going to hurt but I'd rather that than look like a dumb ass blissfully unaware that I have a slutty wife. And if you tell him, he'll know that at least someone is looking out for him.

[Anonymous]

Yes you should talk to your brother.