because guys think we're sluts when we do...it's because of your reaction if/when we do.
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Because we're afraid of what your reaction will be and I knows it's probably the same for guys but girls like when a guy takes the lead, it makes her more comfortable. Kissing for the first time for example, that can be super nerve racking and girls will keep it off unless the guys does it first.
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Anonymous
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im sorry, but WHO is FORCING men to approach women? this person should be stopped.
Iv always made the first move on a guy its never the guy making the move with me, i guess its a sign of confidence and also being a gentlemen something like that
It's easy for a girl to simply be in love and gossip and show it, but guys are to manly, and if the guy is willing to do something to get her, we know to give it a try with them
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Anonymous
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Because men have made women feel like they are entitled to get approached first. Dumb men of the past took the bait and screwed up everything for men in the present in the future.
Wow. At least one guy gets it. A guy with no sense of decorum and vandalizes property but hey, it's a start! Run and tell all the other members of the male species. You're doing womankind a favor.
It's just how it is. We don't want to seem like we are dying over you and what not. :)
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Anonymous
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Gender roles. It's stupid. I wish I could meet a girl who would come up to me and be like.. "hey want to go have sex and date after? I'll be the bread-winner".
Because girls think that when a guy doesn't make a move then he does not like her . Hah we are just too scared incase you dont like us that way ??
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Anonymous
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I get that guys are as shy as girls when it comes to that, but when a chick gets rejected its all chocolate fudge Ben and Jerry's and Rom coms and a whole lotta ranting
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Anonymous
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Idk about the ladies you've met, but I know I made the first move on this guy and now he's my boyfriend.. I went for what I wanted, maybe they just wanna know you actually want them
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Anonymous
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Personally I feel uncomfortable being the one to try to talk first. It reassures me the guys into me and then I have an easier time talking and being myself
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Not all women wait. But those that do mostly fear rejection, nothing hurts more than rejection. Or they just don't want to risk getting hurt.
Because no one likes being rejected, that my man is a true story.
then why are we forced to get rejected ?
Bc some people just don't love us.:(
because guys think we're sluts when we do...it's because of your reaction if/when we do.
Because we're afraid of what your reaction will be and I knows it's probably the same for guys but girls like when a guy takes the lead, it makes her more comfortable. Kissing for the first time for example, that can be super nerve racking and girls will keep it off unless the guys does it first.
im sorry, but WHO is FORCING men to approach women? this person should be stopped.
society and women are
so women & society is holding a gun to a mans head and forcing him to approach women? I was totally unaware of this.
Because we want a guy with the balls to approach us. We like a guy who's not afraid.
Yea so so true.
Iv always made the first move on a guy its never the guy making the move with me, i guess its a sign of confidence and also being a gentlemen something like that
This is something I HATE, guys and girls should do an Equal amount of "first moves". When girls get mad it's the stupidest thing ever!!
Because I won't. But you don't have to either. Some girls will make the first move, but I think they're the minority.
It's easy for a girl to simply be in love and gossip and show it, but guys are to manly, and if the guy is willing to do something to get her, we know to give it a try with them
Because men have made women feel like they are entitled to get approached first. Dumb men of the past took the bait and screwed up everything for men in the present in the future.
tradition, yeah it's unfair but oh well, that's part of life
There's pros and cons to both genders. The difference is that males complain about their cons.
trust me , if you were us , you would be hung up on top of a pole
Case in point->>>>>>mantobee, a male is complaining. *eyeroll* run along little boy and take your multiple accounts with you.
Hahahaha :)
Wow. At least one guy gets it. A guy with no sense of decorum and vandalizes property but hey, it's a start! Run and tell all the other members of the male species. You're doing womankind a favor.
It's just how it is. We don't want to seem like we are dying over you and what not. :)
Gender roles. It's stupid. I wish I could meet a girl who would come up to me and be like.. "hey want to go have sex and date after? I'll be the bread-winner".
Before that happens it's gonna snow in Miami.
Because girls think that when a guy doesn't make a move then he does not like her . Hah we are just too scared incase you dont like us that way ??
I get that guys are as shy as girls when it comes to that, but when a chick gets rejected its all chocolate fudge Ben and Jerry's and Rom coms and a whole lotta ranting
Idk about the ladies you've met, but I know I made the first move on this guy and now he's my boyfriend.. I went for what I wanted, maybe they just wanna know you actually want them
Personally I feel uncomfortable being the one to try to talk first. It reassures me the guys into me and then I have an easier time talking and being myself
Why? It's very simple. Because we don't need to.