Polls: Break Up & Divorce

How long do guys keep nudes after they end a relationship? Does it depend how much they were into their ex? Does it depend if they get into a new relationship? Does it depend if the new girlfriend finds out? A lifetime?
How long are nudes saved for? And why would you keep them after you break up?
So many questions lol sorry. .

I reached out to my ex via Facebook not text and we talked for hours and then he suddenly said" here's my number just text me if you want"?
*does He actually want me to text him or could he had said that to not sound mean? We did end in bad terms when we broke up and he said he never wanted to see me and each of us to go our separate ways. Months after he started liking on instagram everything would post. Then he even followed me in my car once to see where i was headed when i was in his neighborhood. About 3 weeks ago he put up a song on Facebook and i 'liked it" and 2 weeks after i put up the following lyrics up and he also "liked" it. We have a long history together.
He has me confused.

Say a guy was trying to pursue a girl that was overweight who was otherwise minding her own business. He likes everything else about her except her weight. But when she decides to pay attention and end up liking the guy he proceeds agree to anything else but date her unless she lose the weight. He rejects her especially since he had falsely assumed overweight or obese people are easy sex and she didn't put out yet he's still interested but afraid of what it will do to his image if he dates an overweight person. She loses the weight and now he's more interested than before. Is she obligated to give him the time of day especially after she was humiliated for nothing?

My ex broke up with me a week ago because he said we took things too fast and he lost feelings for me. Shattered my heart but I really want him back, and don't want to drive him crazy with calling or texting him. He won't text me or snap chat me back. Homecoming is coming up and this other guy asked me as just friends. If I look as amazing as possible, like my ex likes would it work to make him jealous or will he think that I just moved on? Does looking extremely hot make a guy want to come back or just want sex?

So my ex bf broke up with me 10 days ago through TEXT. I replied with a letter I had written him stating that I also wanted to break up with him because he wasn't the same person I fell in love with. We haven't spoken since then. I just got a text from him that was meant for his boss. Was this an honest mistake or a way to contact me.

our history: we dated for 2 months and I broke up with him because I found out he told a girl he was single. after a month apart, he begged to have me back and gave me a promise ring that indicated his love for me. it was a nice gesture, he did all the right things and i took him back. everything was great when we dated again until he started getting depressed about this job and wanting to be alone and away from everyone. He asked for a break and we took a 2 day break lol 10 days later, he broke up with me because his heart isn't in the right place and he needs time to himself to figure his life out. he told me i deserve better and he wishes nothing but the best for me. i asked if there was someone else and he said no, which i believe.

This ex boyfriend of mine was my longest relationship of 6 months; He's very country and southern. I haven't spoken to him except for 5 minutes when his friend asked me if I still wanted to get back together with him, and we talked off his phone; this was about one month ago. Just last night though I had a dream where I met up with him because we have a lot of mutual friends and we agreed to workout the tension between us so when we hung out with friends we didn't want to kill each other. Some how though we ended up on a beach and we talked out everything, next thing I knew we were kissing and it wasn't a small kiss either, it was a long one and it felt like there was finally meaning and passion behind it. After the kiss I just broke down and started crying and he just held me saying "Everything was going to be okay and that we'd work it all out."(I never cried in front of him when we were together, and even when something was wrong he never held me like he did in my dream) While he was holding me though he pushed some hair back out of my face and kissed my forehead continuing saying "Everything's gonna be okay" after that we were back at his house and it was somehow now winter again, and I was talking to his mom and she said he really missed me. Then he came back into the room and gave me his favorite hunting jacket and we just cuddled on his couch with the fire going and watching movies; I'm not sure what would've happened next because I woke up.
If anyone could maybe help me on what this could possibly mean you'd be a great help! Also this is good to know, I'm now dating another guy, who is similar to him, but is at the same time completely different.

ok this is a weird question i know but today me and my boyfriend went into this store right and the first thing he said was do you think they have laxatives. i mean i guess its normal? right? and then i played dumb and was like oh are you lactose intolerant but hah that was a mistake. but we haven't been dating for even a month yet. i guess its nice he's comfortable around me if i want to look at it from that perspective. but im not sure this was like a really weird experience for me.

p.s. the store didn't have laxatives

My ex broke with me two months ago for an unknown reason. We had a nice 2.5 month relationship and there weren't any issues so it was a real shock when he just stopped responding to my messages. And when i encountered him in a bar few days later he didn't want to talk to me at all so i just left it like that because i didn't want to push him into something he doesn't want to do. At first i was devastated, but after two months of successful NC he still hasn't called. I feel much better now and i'm ready to move on but one part of me still wonders will he ever call me? I really liked him (up to the point of break-up when i considered him rude) and he seemed to enjoy spending time with me so this breakup left me confused.

i know that nc should be about healing, not manipulating anyone and it worked great deal for me cause i don't feel hurt as i did when i started it. and i'm not trying to play mind-games with him, i just wanted both of us to cool down and not to talk to each other for a while.

so my question is this - has nc ever worked for you and how long did it take?

I haven't talked to my ex in four months since our failed attempt at being friends after we ended things and a few weeks ago he sent me a random snapchat of him and a girl.

Through her social media I know its a new girlfriend. I didn't respond because it seemed pointless.

Two days later he sent me another one, completely random of an animal.

He was my best friend and I've never been so close to a guy before. I know I was one of the most important people in his life and at one time he thought I was the whole package and that he's never connected with someone or been able to share as much personal stuff with anyone before as he did with me, including his ex girlfriend of 4 years. The loss of friendship was hard but overall I'm at a good place and if he's happy so am I.

He seemed nonchalant about our friendship ending and that he "knew it wasn't possible for things to go back to normal," so I just don't understand what that whole thing was?

Perhaps you have trust but it still crosses your mind.

Maybe something your partner says or does makes you wonder.

Maybe you have been cheated on and have trust issues.

Maybe you don't think anyone would ever cheat on you!

Please explain all!