Nah, not really. Women today are having more casual sex than they ever have, so their standards aren't that high. And their relationships are still failing at a higher rate - I think - than mens'. Education and careers only make you smart for what you studied, not based on average life intelligence.
I know right. I see girls who are dental hygienists and nurses dating dudes with no jobs so I don't think it matters too much. My next door neighbor is always fighting with her boyfriend and all he ever does is stay at the house so I don't really think it's because an unavailable.
@LiveFreeorDieHard Exactly. I really don't know who women think they're fooling. Everyone can see how they bullshit, proclaiming all these standards and "choosyness" yet making a joke of themselves. I can never take it seriously.
I know. I think they have standards when it comes to dating maybe? But if you have tattoos or act like a jackass, boom automatic real man and she wants to date them.
@ikissedtheskyonce Just because you're not doing it, doesn't mean other women aren't. Casual sex and random hookups have become very common for today's woman. I don't get why people keep pretending it's not true, when we all know some girl who's doing it.
@ikissedtheskyonce ummmm yeah you did cause you said guys and guess what I'm a guy and another thing all I'm seeing coming from you is your trying to avoid responsibility from your own actions and what do other girls have to do with you nothing cause their not the one's that are speaking here you are
I had loads of casual sex since the age of 17. But as soon as I met my partner - I realized what it took to be a real woman ready for marriage. It makes me appreciate being monogamous so much more and will never cheat. I literally have no more curiosity as no one compares to my SO.
and by the way @ikissedtheskyonce your opinion about me being a weirdo isn't valid cause in order for you to know that i'm a weirdo you would have to know who I am and the fact of the matter is you don't know who I am so you can't make claims that I'm a weirdo
I took one off the market a little over a week ago. Scott & I got married!
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My idea of a good man is simple.
1. Abstinence of alcoholic beverages or seldom intake of them 2. No dependence on drugs, illegal or prescription 3. No prior sexual experience 4. If sexually experienced, then all sex must occur within marriage, and the former wife must be dead; divorced wives may hint that the previous relationship failed in some way, and that would be judged on a case-by-case basis 5. No gambling habits or other addictive or compulsive behaviors 6. No sexual deviances
This kind of man sounds boring as fuck. Men like this usually don't do to well in the dating scene when they'er young or if the woman is past the party lifestyle of her 20s.
Neither am I. I can't stand women who regularly go to those but Being a millennial a good chunk of them are into that. Plus its also hard to find a girl that has her own personality. Then again most guys are like that as well.
Thanks. Its hard to find anyone really worth my time now days (men in your case), especially one with personality and are unique. And by that I mean someone who hasn't fallen for all of the current pop culture BS or what is pushed societaly on young people. Me, like people with an edge, something to them and can be themselves even if they are alone.
@JRH1991 Don't worry. You'll find someone eventually. The wild party lifestyle is not sustainable, and the people will eventually come to their senses and reason that the steady, working life is best.
Little truth to this! A lot of women have high standards, not all but some. With all this feminist shit going around women stand up more to men and shut them down. The media is fucking both men and women making life an illusion expecting us to be the perfect humans that we are not.
I swear everyone is horribly pessimistic. I've yet to meet someone I outright hate. There are a few people who I don't particularly like, but mostly they're at least trying to be good people. The majority of people I've met are decent people though- it's rare to find people that are jsut complete dicks
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Interesting Take. I know "good" is defined differently from person to person. There are some good men out there, but I get what you are saying if you are looking at the bigger picture.
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more goods, better pay, white knight methods blah blah blah... NO she's going to date up to someone that's special, relative to her. someone that's wonderful, that lets her know she's garbage. someone that tells her she's garbage. tell her she's garbage, she'll want a ring. tell her she has to work for it then, because why are you going to work when oscar can. rinse, repeat. #MURICA (yes society is seriously this disgusting)
There are still some good men and people left out there, you just gotta know where to look but liberalism has taken a very strong hold on society, that meaning lack of morals and principals. Set your standards don't go back on them and start looking in the right places. I hope i was of some help.
Made it to where you said women were smarter than men. Average female iq is 5 points less than mens. Women are drastically underrepresented at the extreme high iq range. Women also choose to be ignorant.
Fucking hell not everyone goes out their way to find out their IQ score! So how would you know if women on average have 5 points less than men if not everyone takes the test? Does that make sense to you yet?
https://www.stanfordbinet.net This is the information that matters when it comes to iq. The lack of interest in quantifying is a mark of let intelligence on its own.
If you think that being better educated is the same as being smarter then your university failed you.
TBH I think women have always been picky and critical of their potential mates and that is something that will never change. Women are free to expect more from men nowadays but women will have to do more to match.
I wish I could tell you. Men really love sex, so the fact that we're willing to give it up en masse to resist stepping up our game really says a lot about our reluctance/inability to achieve more, unfortunately.
I'll make my next MyTake more inebriating for you lol
i dont think men were better when women were forcibly keep out of society.. by men. that is completely illogical. its like saying men were better during legal slavery bc thy knew how o take charge.
Howdy, Jeff 57 and, after being played by my wife I never even thought of looking for another wife. Good Man?, we're out there - I currently no longer know where to look nor do I understand this world however; if I simply held-out my hand... would she understand and place her hand on mine these days? I'm not a Player and if she were willing to spend the rest of her life with me I'd at least be able to sleep at night and she would always know that "we" would no longer have to be alone.
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I agree that we men should not change our ways! They have worked for centuries and I'm sure they will continue to work! But if you want to get laid more go on a diet and start going to the gym. At first it may be hard to get used to, but eventually you will begin to enjoy it and reap the many many many benefits!! 😏😎
I would say the playing field has evened out more and to me that's not bad. It is true I only got my personality and personal trait to attract women. So far, what I have that's impressive is a progressive and ignorant-free mind
Yeah. Isn't it funny that there are people that actually think most women are nice? People always portray them as innocent, etc. Of course there are some nice women but there are very few of them. I can tell you are nice. Most of the females that are different from most women are the ones that hang around mostly guys. I think one reason why many women think good guys are being fake nice is because they deal with many women being face nice to them all the time so when they come across a good guy, they say things like,''He is mostly likely a douche pretending to be nice'' or he'' just wants to get laid.''' etc. What other reasons you don't like most women?
@steven7890789 Besides the fakeness with their friends it seems as though a lot of them refuse to take responsibility for anything they do. Like if they cheat it's because they're emotional needs are being neglected. If someone tells them about themselves they're being "shamed." It's all so very annoying. Like they're big children or something.
I agree with you. It is like they think they are entitled and nothing is wrong with what they do because they have a vagina. They think it is ok for them to cheat if they think they have a good reason but whatever reason a man gives about why he cheated those same women get pissed. I get what you are saying about the shaming too.
@steven7890789 There are complete assholes on both side of the fence. You could find guys who act exactly like the women you talked about. We aren't better nor worse.
@steven7890789 And you will find guys who are wayyy more violent and abusive. Just don't try to paint us as angels compared to women as a gender because we aren't...
@JuicyBrain I never said guys were angels. Most people in general are assholes. I am just saying there are far more women that are entitled because society spoils them too much.
There are plenty of good men left. It's just that everyone is so busy running around trying to get rich, get fit, find fulfillment, etc. that they don't have time to notice those around them.
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Nah, not really. Women today are having more casual sex than they ever have, so their standards aren't that high. And their relationships are still failing at a higher rate - I think - than mens'. Education and careers only make you smart for what you studied, not based on average life intelligence.
I know right. I see girls who are dental hygienists and nurses dating dudes with no jobs so I don't think it matters too much. My next door neighbor is always fighting with her boyfriend and all he ever does is stay at the house so I don't really think it's because an unavailable.
@LiveFreeorDieHard Exactly. I really don't know who women think they're fooling. Everyone can see how they bullshit, proclaiming all these standards and "choosyness" yet making a joke of themselves. I can never take it seriously.
I know. I think they have standards when it comes to dating maybe? But if you have tattoos or act like a jackass, boom automatic real man and she wants to date them.
I disagree I do not have casual sex and yet I still manage to get approached by random guys asking for sex.
Assholes will approach any women
Also, guys these days want friends with benefits and shit and I don't so I refuse to have sex just for the sake of it so those men disappear
@ikissedtheskyonce Just because you're not doing it, doesn't mean other women aren't. Casual sex and random hookups have become very common for today's woman. I don't get why people keep pretending it's not true, when we all know some girl who's doing it.
solipsism. Women think that if they aren't doing it then it must be the norm.
Ummmm @ikissedtheskyonce your totally wrong for thinking i want a friends with benefits relationship
why are women so damn delusional
@CancerianMan81 I never said you did weirdo
What do other girls have to do with me?
@JustheretoChill men do the same thing
@ikissedtheskyonce ummmm yeah you did cause you said guys and guess what I'm a guy and another thing all I'm seeing coming from you is your trying to avoid responsibility from your own actions and what do other girls have to do with you nothing cause their not the one's that are speaking here you are
I had loads of casual sex since the age of 17. But as soon as I met my partner - I realized what it took to be a real woman ready for marriage. It makes me appreciate being monogamous so much more and will never cheat. I literally have no more curiosity as no one compares to my SO.
@Mayamoon02 that's to be praised and acknowledged
and by the way @ikissedtheskyonce your opinion about me being a weirdo isn't valid cause in order for you to know that i'm a weirdo you would have to know who I am and the fact of the matter is you don't know who I am so you can't make claims that I'm a weirdo
@CancerianMan81 you do not matter to me
@ikissedtheskyonce I don't care if you do you want to know why cause your one less problem I have to deal with
I took one off the market a little over a week ago. Scott & I got married!
My idea of a good man is simple.
1. Abstinence of alcoholic beverages or seldom intake of them
2. No dependence on drugs, illegal or prescription
3. No prior sexual experience
4. If sexually experienced, then all sex must occur within marriage, and the former wife must be dead; divorced wives may hint that the previous relationship failed in some way, and that would be judged on a case-by-case basis
5. No gambling habits or other addictive or compulsive behaviors
6. No sexual deviances
I know a guy for you then; unfortunately he's ten years old.
This kind of man sounds boring as fuck. Men like this usually don't do to well in the dating scene when they'er young or if the woman is past the party lifestyle of her 20s.
@JRH1991 I am not a party person. I have never had a party lifestyle, and I am not interested in such a wild life.
Neither am I. I can't stand women who regularly go to those but Being a millennial a good chunk of them are into that. Plus its also hard to find a girl that has her own personality. Then again most guys are like that as well.
@JRH1991 That's a good thing. Living a wholesome life while you are young and energetic pays out in the end. :)
Thanks. Its hard to find anyone really worth my time now days (men in your case), especially one with personality and are unique. And by that I mean someone who hasn't fallen for all of the current pop culture BS or what is pushed societaly on young people. Me, like people with an edge, something to them and can be themselves even if they are alone.
@JRH1991 Don't worry. You'll find someone eventually. The wild party lifestyle is not sustainable, and the people will eventually come to their senses and reason that the steady, working life is best.
Little truth to this! A lot of women have high standards, not all but some. With all this feminist shit going around women stand up more to men and shut them down. The media is fucking both men and women making life an illusion expecting us to be the perfect humans that we are not.
I swear everyone is horribly pessimistic. I've yet to meet someone I outright hate. There are a few people who I don't particularly like, but mostly they're at least trying to be good people.
The majority of people I've met are decent people though- it's rare to find people that are jsut complete dicks
Interesting Take. I know "good" is defined differently from person to person. There are some good men out there, but I get what you are saying if you are looking at the bigger picture.
more goods, better pay, white knight methods blah blah blah... NO she's going to date up to someone that's special, relative to her. someone that's wonderful, that lets her know she's garbage. someone that tells her she's garbage. tell her she's garbage, she'll want a ring. tell her she has to work for it then, because why are you going to work when oscar can. rinse, repeat. #MURICA (yes society is seriously this disgusting)
So women now are asking the same question men have been asking since forever.
Thank goodness you ladies caught up.
xD
There are still some good men and people left out there, you just gotta know where to look but liberalism has taken a very strong hold on society, that meaning lack of morals and principals. Set your standards don't go back on them and start looking in the right places. I hope i was of some help.
Made it to where you said women were smarter than men. Average female iq is 5 points less than mens. Women are drastically underrepresented at the extreme high iq range. Women also choose to be ignorant.
Maybe women are less interested in taking IQ tests? They don't feel the need to quantify their intelligence.
@Mayamoon02 that's not how iq works
I don't think you understood my sentence.
I am referring to the need of measuring your intelligence via an IQ score.
That is how it works actually
@Mayamoon02 I'm not going to argue with someone who's ignorant of the process.
Fucking hell not everyone goes out their way to find out their IQ score!
So how would you know if women on average have 5 points less than men if not everyone takes the test?
Does that make sense to you yet?
Here since you clearly do not know how IQ is measured:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intelligence_quotient
@Mayamoon02
https://www.stanfordbinet.net
This is the information that matters when it comes to iq. The lack of interest in quantifying is a mark of let intelligence on its own.
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If you think that being better educated is the same as being smarter then your university failed you.
TBH I think women have always been picky and critical of their potential mates and that is something that will never change. Women are free to expect more from men nowadays but women will have to do more to match.
Well that was sobering :x So... what's the solution? Is there a solution? lol.
Nice take by the way.
I wish I could tell you. Men really love sex, so the fact that we're willing to give it up en masse to resist stepping up our game really says a lot about our reluctance/inability to achieve more, unfortunately.
I'll make my next MyTake more inebriating for you lol
:o careful now, a lot of guys out there might hate you for drawing that conclusion lol. not really making men seem any more desirable... :p
i would appreciate that immensely :D
I proposed a solution seven months ago. Unfortunately many people couldn't read past the headline.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a23640-could-feminism-save-the-american-family
Or maybe we'll just continue to hook up and leave breeding to the lower species?
i dont think men were better when women were forcibly keep out of society.. by men. that is completely illogical. its like saying men were better during legal slavery bc thy knew how o take charge.
Howdy, Jeff 57 and, after being played by my wife I never even thought of looking for another wife. Good Man?, we're out there - I currently no longer know where to look nor do I understand this world however; if I simply held-out my hand... would she understand and place her hand on mine these days?
I'm not a Player and if she were willing to spend the rest of her life with me I'd at least be able to sleep at night and she would always know that "we" would no longer have to be alone.
I agree that we men should not change our ways! They have worked for centuries and I'm sure they will continue to work! But if you want to get laid more go on a diet and start going to the gym. At first it may be hard to get used to, but eventually you will begin to enjoy it and reap the many many many benefits!! 😏😎
Blonde guys like me are usually good men. We just have no interest in most kind of women nowadays. She has to be super special to be worth pursuing.
There are no good women left.
I would say the playing field has evened out more and to me that's not bad. It is true I only got my personality and personal trait to attract women. So far, what I have that's impressive is a progressive and ignorant-free mind
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I like men better than women it seems as quality women have become a minority.
Aren't there more women that talk smack about their friends behind their back than males do?
@steven7890789 Yup. One of the reasons why I don't like them very much.
Yeah. Isn't it funny that there are people that actually think most women are nice? People always portray them as innocent, etc. Of course there are some nice women but there are very few of them. I can tell you are nice. Most of the females that are different from most women are the ones that hang around mostly guys. I think one reason why many women think good guys are being fake nice is because they deal with many women being face nice to them all the time so when they come across a good guy, they say things like,''He is mostly likely a douche pretending to be nice'' or he'' just wants to get laid.''' etc. What other reasons you don't like most women?
@steven7890789 Besides the fakeness with their friends it seems as though a lot of them refuse to take responsibility for anything they do. Like if they cheat it's because they're emotional needs are being neglected. If someone tells them about themselves they're being "shamed." It's all so very annoying. Like they're big children or something.
I agree with you. It is like they think they are entitled and nothing is wrong with what they do because they have a vagina. They think it is ok for them to cheat if they think they have a good reason but whatever reason a man gives about why he cheated those same women get pissed. I get what you are saying about the shaming too.
@steven7890789
There are complete assholes on both side of the fence. You could find guys who act exactly like the women you talked about. We aren't better nor worse.
@JuicyBrain there are assholes on both sides of the fence but women feel way more entitled.
@steven7890789
And you will find guys who are wayyy more violent and abusive. Just don't try to paint us as angels compared to women as a gender because we aren't...
@JuicyBrain I never said guys were angels. Most people in general are assholes. I am just saying there are far more women that are entitled because society spoils them too much.
@steven7890789
OK. I can agree with that.
There are plenty of good men left. It's just that everyone is so busy running around trying to get rich, get fit, find fulfillment, etc. that they don't have time to notice those around them.