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Men, This is Why We Don't Want to Date You (Page 7)
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First date should be coffee and a chat. It should be a reconnaissance exercise, to determine whether or not anything further is wanted. . . by both parties.
You. You understand.
well i dont know about the so called pet names lol but i call girls sweet heart all the time does not matter if i want to go out with them or not and also honey, i think it is being polite and i am a southern guy so PS and i am not a player
I think pet names are great, just not babe/baby.
I petname people all the time, probably mostly kitten, lovely, and gorgeous, so I can’t tell someone not to petname me.
Yeah, except for the last one, none of these affect how much a girl wants to date you at all. I will NEVER pay for everything on the first date. I've done it a few times but back then I was young and naive. I know better now.
"BACK THEN i WAS YOUNG AND NAIVE" - 17 years old lmao
@Afrochick Well I learned a lot over four years lol
Have you ever thought we men don't want to date you women either.
This is WHY we don't date you:
- Naggy/Bitchy
- Doesn't give a guy a break
- Slutty past, has been a slut
- Expects too much from a guy
And this is why you sit home every Saturday night
@tylerdurden I actually don't mind it, no women, no problems at all! I am not a mangina like you.
To be honest it annoys me when guys insist on paying if i want to pay im gonna pay jeez
I love you. Lol
"You Won't Pay For The Girl On The First Date!"
Good, that is why we don't want to date you either.
Girls are very demanding, very confusing, they complain and nit pick about everything. When things don't go their way they get mad and upset about it. What do they expect guys to do. Not every guy fits those examples listed.
Be gay then
@Smoothiekisses137. I be gay with you.
@Smoothiekisses137 Also the truth hurts and you know im right.
Not all girls are like that but if you think so then I repeat, be gay.
@Smoothiekisses137 Sorry sweetie im straight. And I like good girls.
Okay well stop generalizing that all girls are like that.
@Smoothiekisses137 ok I will. And im sorry what I wrote offended you in any way. That wasn't my intent. I was writing about my personal experiences with girls.
@Smoothiekisses137 they are all like that.
@bobbyxx okay well forget the other guy, you be gay then.
I get everything you said here. I would probably just be too pushy for foreplay/cuddling.
But that is just me it seems.
hahahahahahhaaaa!!! XD oooh the "Baby, Honey, Sweetie" SOOOOOOOOOO TRUE! XD hehehehe Yeah good one! But this is soo true ! ^^ I'm in this one!
Get the fuck out of here any self respecting man will not put up with you're stubborn ass.
Basically you want a free meal from the nice guys. Typical leech.
"We just met, and you're inviting me over for "Netflix and Chill" "
We just met, and you want me to spend 100 bucks on you for a meal.
If the second one doesn't sound as bad as the first one to you, then you are a terrible human being.
The first date could just be a cup of coffee which is going to cost what? 7 bucks at the most?
@cheeseysouffle $7 for a 20 minute meet up with a girl that has a less than 1% chance of turning into any sort of relationship isn't worth it, sorry.
hell yeah free food ahah
@Afrochick Nope. Not happening.
Women use nice guys and then complain when they stop being nice.
Everythjng is fine but for first date its best to share the bill or rather not have a first date involve money at all but a romantic getaway. I kinda avoided dating this girl from tinder coz I was broke tbh lmfaooo
Why the fuck can't you pay for your own stuff! If I am dating you, you got a job anyway!
what if she doesn't?
@YellowCactus
Then I am not dating her. It's what I say at the end of my sentence...
I don't want a princess who wants a free lunch.
"I don't want a princess who wants a free lunch. " It's more like looking for a sugar daddy I would say 😂 😂
I believe who ever asks who out first should pay... I asked my boyfriend out first so I paid.
Wrong logic. Ä°ts not about who asked. Ä°ts about everyone should pay what they eat and drink.
@Proof_Striker55 I think that's fucked up to make someone pay you asked out... your asking that person to take the time out of their day to get to know you. the least you could do is pay for dinner.
Ä°t goes gold digger life style. You accept the meeting. You have also right to reject the meeting. Generally men starts with first move. So Ä°t can make a woman gold digger when they use this funny logic. No one take anyone's time. You accept the meeting. Otherwise it will be freeship :D Not relationship :D
@Proof_Striker55 no this your problem with men. You automatically assume every woman is a gold digger and just after money. Why bother asking in the first place anyways
"You automatically assume every woman is a gold digger " . Where did you take this result from my sentences? I don't see every women as gold digger. But any women who expect men to pay in the first or second or other dates are gold digger for me.
Was talking to a guy that hit every one of these bullet points. I stopped communicating with him after 5 days, I don't want my time wasted.
Neither do we.
@bobbyxx I'm not talking about men or women in general, but this one specific person. If you don't want time wasted, by all means drop whoever she is.
I definitely get sick of the one word answers. It so much work to have a conversation. Jeez!
I don't get called baby and all that by guys I'm real life, but some guys on here do. I love it
Is this a joke or satire? Because you can't be serious.
I want to put this out there though you can't expect for the guys to pay when society has for everything being so high that you can't barely keep yourself to stay alive anymore cause the price on everything is so high
agree with all, but the first point. its wrong to expect him to pay for u also.