l know that l have the right one now and she is my dream girl l have never loved any other girl as much as l love this girl and we both have a connection l won't say any more l would put my life on the line for this girl
I think you're catering a bit too much to girls with this post. Girls don't come to guys, so if you wait around, obviously nothing will happen.
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Wait around means, you don't go to bars every weekend trying to find someone or use dating apps in a mood "I NEED TO FIND SOMEONE!!!". Wait around and see what you find in life, trust the fact that you will find them without pushing it.
Did you read what I just wrote, girls don't come to guys. The odds that I'll just randomly run into a good woman that likes me too is comparable to my Powerball odds, especially since I don't buy powerball tickets.
I actually go to guys sometimes. But I meant that the situation where you can approach and get to know those people will be served to you when time is right. You don't seem to believe in it? How can a girl assume a right guy will ever come to her? They will have to approach too, if they meet someone they like a lot.
You are stupid for falling in love with the wrong person and the person is under no duty to "appreciate" the love you have for them. That's putting your screw ups and blaming the other person. They are not at fault for what you do. You and you alone are 100% at fault.
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You must have no logic at all. Ever knew that you really can't decide who you fall in love with? It is not like anyone wants to fall for a person who doesn't like them back. No. The person who makes you fall in love and then leaves you cold/hanging, is more in charge of it than your own stupidity has to do with it. It is easy to blame yourself in those situations, but hard to accept that the person who actually did you wrong was faking it all the time. They weren't in charge of how you feel necessarily, but they made you feel that way. This does not apply to every situation, but if we think about the example I wrote about for instance. He was trying so hard to be this person I would fall for, that he actually made it.
Also, why do we need to blame anyone? It is not your fault and not the others fault. But they probably made you feel it is your fault if you feel like it is. Then they didn't appreciate your feelings
The fact that you fell for them is no one's fault. However, if you think their feelings were wrong somehow, it is most likely because the other person made you feel you were stupid or wrong for falling in love with them... They didn't then appreciate that you liked them. It's that simple. Not blaming, but that's just explaining why it feels like it feels. Do you understand? How many times do I have to explain it? English is not my first language and not even my second one, I still try. You don't seem to even try to understand.
You say it's no ones fault but the picture clearly says it's stupid to not appreciate the love the girl showed.
That is assigning fault.
I'm sorry but you should have shown a different picture if this isn't what you meant. That is the meaning of what was shown. Just as women don't owe men anything men also do not owe women anything including accepting their love.
There are no genders and no certain love description.
Just that you loved the wrong person. Why you feel it is the wrong person? Probably because they treated you wrong. Even though you don't love a person back, you do not have to treat them like their love was bad or wrong. It's nice that someone loves you, you can appreciate it even though you won't love them back. It's just being human.
What's so wrong with showing you care for someone? Is it wrong because the other person didn't care for you? No.
Read between the lines. But not every quote is about you or your bad experience with women. Don't you like to be loved? What's wrong with people caring for you? I sence you have a huge problem with this.
Literally, read the picture. It simply called the person stupid for not appreciating the love. Not that they shamed the person for loving them. Just that they didn't appreciate it. That's bullshit. Literally look at the picture. I don't get how you don't see what I'm saying.
What's wrong is forcing it upon someone and calling someone stupid if they don't actually want it. That's flat out morally wrong. Something that the picture is glorifying.
It is a picture trying to help someone who is blaming themselves for loving the wrong person. It is not a sign for someone, who didn't like them back. It is not like anyone is going to say to that person they love: THIS IS YOUR FAULT!!! No. It is easier to get through that heartbreak if you do not completely blame yourself in your mind though. And all that sign says is that it is stupid they didn't APPRECIATE your love. That doesn't mean they were stupid otherwise for not loving them back.
I don't get how you do not see this side of the meaning. You are so fixed on the negative picture you got out of it. Yes, it is no ones fault that the other person FELL IN LOVE. Yes, it is stupid to not treat a person, who loves you, right.
Thanks for asking, I'm actually a lot better now. I just like to dwell on the past every now and then. I cried for a few weeks, now I'm already quite happy with my life.
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l know that l have the right one now and she is my dream girl l have never loved any other girl as much as l love this girl and we both have a connection l won't say any more l would put my life on the line for this girl
I think you're catering a bit too much to girls with this post. Girls don't come to guys, so if you wait around, obviously nothing will happen.
Wait around means, you don't go to bars every weekend trying to find someone or use dating apps in a mood "I NEED TO FIND SOMEONE!!!". Wait around and see what you find in life, trust the fact that you will find them without pushing it.
Did you read what I just wrote, girls don't come to guys. The odds that I'll just randomly run into a good woman that likes me too is comparable to my Powerball odds, especially since I don't buy powerball tickets.
Even if it was hypothetically possible, I won't live long enough to see it happen
I actually go to guys sometimes. But I meant that the situation where you can approach and get to know those people will be served to you when time is right. You don't seem to believe in it? How can a girl assume a right guy will ever come to her? They will have to approach too, if they meet someone they like a lot.
That second picture is 100% wrong.
You are stupid for falling in love with the wrong person and the person is under no duty to "appreciate" the love you have for them. That's putting your screw ups and blaming the other person. They are not at fault for what you do. You and you alone are 100% at fault.
You must have no logic at all. Ever knew that you really can't decide who you fall in love with? It is not like anyone wants to fall for a person who doesn't like them back. No. The person who makes you fall in love and then leaves you cold/hanging, is more in charge of it than your own stupidity has to do with it.
It is easy to blame yourself in those situations, but hard to accept that the person who actually did you wrong was faking it all the time. They weren't in charge of how you feel necessarily, but they made you feel that way. This does not apply to every situation, but if we think about the example I wrote about for instance. He was trying so hard to be this person I would fall for, that he actually made it.
Also, why do we need to blame anyone? It is not your fault and not the others fault. But they probably made you feel it is your fault if you feel like it is. Then they didn't appreciate your feelings
"It's no one's fault, but if it is, it's theirs..."
The fact that you fell for them is no one's fault. However, if you think their feelings were wrong somehow, it is most likely because the other person made you feel you were stupid or wrong for falling in love with them... They didn't then appreciate that you liked them. It's that simple. Not blaming, but that's just explaining why it feels like it feels.
Do you understand? How many times do I have to explain it? English is not my first language and not even my second one, I still try. You don't seem to even try to understand.
You say it's no ones fault but the picture clearly says it's stupid to not appreciate the love the girl showed.
That is assigning fault.
I'm sorry but you should have shown a different picture if this isn't what you meant. That is the meaning of what was shown. Just as women don't owe men anything men also do not owe women anything including accepting their love.
There are no genders and no certain love description.
Just that you loved the wrong person. Why you feel it is the wrong person? Probably because they treated you wrong. Even though you don't love a person back, you do not have to treat them like their love was bad or wrong. It's nice that someone loves you, you can appreciate it even though you won't love them back. It's just being human.
What's so wrong with showing you care for someone? Is it wrong because the other person didn't care for you? No.
Read between the lines. But not every quote is about you or your bad experience with women. Don't you like
to be loved? What's wrong with people caring for you? I sence you have a huge problem with this.
No but it's wrong to try and force it on them.
Literally, read the picture. It simply called the person stupid for not appreciating the love. Not that they shamed the person for loving them. Just that they didn't appreciate it. That's bullshit. Literally look at the picture. I don't get how you don't see what I'm saying.
Nothing is wrong with being loved.
What's wrong is forcing it upon someone and calling someone stupid if they don't actually want it. That's flat out morally wrong. Something that the picture is glorifying.
It is a picture trying to help someone who is blaming themselves for loving the wrong person. It is not a sign for someone, who didn't like them back. It is not like anyone is going to say to that person they love: THIS IS YOUR FAULT!!!
No.
It is easier to get through that heartbreak if you do not completely blame yourself in your mind though. And all that sign says is that it is stupid they didn't APPRECIATE your love. That doesn't mean they were stupid otherwise for not loving them back.
I don't get how you do not see this side of the meaning. You are so fixed on the negative picture you got out of it. Yes, it is no ones fault that the other person FELL IN LOVE. Yes, it is stupid to not treat a person, who loves you, right.
Well it's not exactly a secret that many women seem to prefer assholes. The evidence is all around us.
but does the wrong person have to be an asshole?
Not necessarily, but the evidence around me seems to indicate so.
So you fall for only assholes?
No but i certainly see it all the time.
Happens a lot and to a lot of fools.
thanks
That's the fun of being alive...
yeah, well would love be the same if it hadn't this challenge?
Are you Ok. You seems to be very sad.
Thanks for asking, I'm actually a lot better now. I just like to dwell on the past every now and then. I cried for a few weeks, now I'm already quite happy with my life.
I hope so. Take care.
The story of my life...
This can't happen to me.
I'm immune lol
You obviously haven't met Luboš Motl 😏😏😏
@IlyaTheImpaler I think I'm gonna turn homo
Are u insulting my šenšei? 😡
Ofc not
Falling for the wrong person is about chemistry... which isn't necessarily wise or safe. True love is not a gut reaction...
Girls can't love as strong as guys do and that's a fact.
Yes it happens sometimes, you are very correct
Nice take
Great read
he is a loser
and I still care for him... life is weird. I know I do not need him in my life, but I still miss him.
Yeah that's tough
Noice.
Cool stuff
Good take