Why I'm Against Feminism (And How This Negatively Impacts Me When It Comes To Dating Men) (Page 2)
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I’ll shut yiu up right there! Your to young to have opinions on this all yiu have jusr claimed offends yiu is from what yiu read About so you don’t count!
Here I’d the real of it all, your frustrated and angry cause your not liked by men could you blame them this article you wrote o don’t like you get it?
The first guy who poked you clam whilst out looking for one your going to flip head over heals for him. suffocate him he’ll split then you can say all this until then keep your opinions in your hole little girl!!! 😂 lol
Lol... I have no problem getting guys. I get hit on and asked out all the time. The issue is how they act!
Mighty long bitch there girly Thar issues for old dykes you sounded like a young dyke influenced by an i
Old one! Lol hey you ever need ax man to change those silly thoughts char me I’ll twist your way of thinking give me a Friday through Saturday promise u won’t ever be the same! 😏😏😏
Hell that's s kind of real woman , you are just like I like to be, my problem is its difficult to explain in English, acim Danish we have an awfull lot feminist in our country, and the " Me Too " campaign too , I use to call it " Me First" campaign as it's what it all about, the top of hypocrisy in my opinion. Of cause men shouldn't rape or abuse us, but today a guy get to be criminalised for helping a young mother and her baby carriage into a bus. And I just wonder why all them accusations suddenly appear on the same time, if something needs donr 15-20 years ago wtf didn't them girls cried up earlier. Hope to follow you and visa versa
I respect your opinion but i think there is a difference between feminism and toxic feminism.
feminism is asking for equal rights to be allowed to have the same opportunities that men are given including promotions and job opportunities.
it's the toxic feminism that makes real feminist look like they are trying to make women more manly and men less manly.
the media and society portrays the negative sides of everything because controversy gets more viewers so the real feminist are not shown as much as the toxic ones.
the same goes for stereotypical views of races and gender and even political.
media pretends to be unbias but they try to force hate by controlling what aspects viewers see.
Actions speak louder than words. There is no "real" type of feminism they're same. Otherwise feminism wouldn't be almost dead. Poor excuse.
@Oram52 makes no sense what you said so. I'm just gonna ignore your random and creepy reply 😂😂😂
How did feminism get so complicated? It seems simple enough. Civil rights for all but it morphed into getting rid of all gender identities and references to anyone's gender. Pure stupidity if you ask me. I like your post and applaud your choice to keep your femininity in tact. I moved out of the states years ago and have lived in much of Latin America. Feminist down there are old school and not very well received. No one talks of a gender-less society. They would just get laughed at. So many of those women though disappear. Many of them are trying to show the abuse and inequality that exists there and help to create a safer place for their daughters. And many of them are murdered by their government or political extremest or cartels. I applaud their bravery and acknowledge their scarifies. Then I come back to the States and I get yelled at for 10 minutes because I said "Ma'am" And I return to my original question. "How did feminism get so complicated?
Unfortunately it’s very difficult to not treat all women like feminists, and makes romance, and those men who aren’t creeps have a less enjoyable dating experience. All because some assholes expected sex in exchange for dinner, they ruined it for most of the decent guys out there who don’t expect it. So, now dating is this long, excruciating series of baby steps of coffee, art galleries, and all the friend stuff before a woman even trusts you to make her dinner, or take her to a restaurant because those assholes got feminists making other women paranoid. So, now you can’t ask for a dinner date as the first date anymore. It sucks royally.
"And for those of you men who don't make the automatic assumption that women are all against you and actually give the girl a chance to prove her worth before you judge her, THANK YOU!"
And thank YOU for not being one of the feminists who made all men think women were against them in the first place. Honestly, I am shocked at how many women actually don't understand (or just deny) how fucked up feminism has made gender relations in the West these days. It's despicable.
I am just glad there are still a few women like you. Not many, but a few, and that gives me hope for humanity.
It really is despicable...
Yeah
@Yads_Is_Back Just FYI, you have received responses here from two feminist women who regularly pose as men on GAG. Can you tell who they are?
Of course I see the girls' posts on here, but I don't know which guys they pretend to be.
Well, one is a prolific female feminist from Sweden, and the other is an odd gal who often to questions the intellect of anyone who questions feminism.
Sorry if I wasn't clear. I'm talking about feminist women with blue GAG accounts, not pink ones.
Oh. I have noticed now :D thanks. But yes, sorry for my misunderstanding
No, that was my bad, not yours. I wasn't very clear at all.
Anyway, hope you have a great weekend.
Cheers
I have read what you have to say. I think that is pretty admirable. While I am not MGTOW, nor do I need any other group to define me, I can understand how they end up being MGTOW or something similar. MGTOW is actually a consequence of feminism where men begin to view women as liabilities. This is what happens as feminism continues to grow unchecked. A lot of men just don't want the risk. Despite all this, you don't judge the whole basket because there are a few bad eggs in it. Based on the ever increasing odds of ending up with a feminist, I can understand why a lot of men just don't want the risk and distance themselves all together.
Sorry lady, feminists won, better adjust and stop acting like we're in 1965.
It's time to marry a soyboy cuck after experimenting with lesbianism for a decade, then adopt 3 children, all difference races (except white of course.) You'll be the breadwinner, working 60 hours a week at the sandwich factory. Welcome to the new world order.
Nah, society can’t tell me how to live my life. Get over it
You sound like you could benefit from a bit of feminism. If hairy legs are manly why do women have them too? And if being nurturing is feminine why do you, as a woman, need tot try to be nurturing? It should be effortless. Maybe you should first question the nature of your reality a bit. And no, I don't agree with a lot of the bullshit feminazis promote, like aproaching a woman on the street is sexual harassment to them. But that to me is called being crazy, not feminist.
"If hairy legs are manly why do women have them too? And if being nurturing is feminine why do you, as a woman, need tot try to be nurturing? It should be effortless."
Agreed. The answer is one word: rebellion. Or you could just say taking advantage of modern society and expecting the same good results of it, which explains men's reactions to this stuff.
But I'm totally with you on that last part...
Feminism is ok, helps empower women who feel suppressed or treated cruelly.(e. g. the voting movement was very good and in some countries/areas feminism is really needed)
Tho "u can't hit me I'm fragile but I can hit u" isn't the type of feminism I agree.
It's a very abstract subject but not all men assume u r a feminist cause of your gender but if they do maybe clarify it. Kindness (open door for the person etc) is nice.
^ just my opinion
Agree
So "feminism is ok" Not only that, men are also treated cruelly too. But if you say masculinisim is also ok for that reason and support both, you're basically supporting equality not either of those movements. You can't say "I was a feminist yesterday because mom was beaten up" or "I was an mgtow the other day because dad got sued and falsely accused by my mom" or something like that. When you can make things simple, doing it the complex way is not necessary.
@Aiko_E_Lara indeed^
Ok I don’t agree with your viewpoint but I respect it and you’re free to feel how you do and you’re totally valid. We don’t all have to have the same mentality BUT this boo hoo I can’t get a boyfriend whining is so stupid. Like girl get a grip. I can’t take you seriously when you’re complaining about your dating life.
But I can take you seriously about issues that actually matter like living in this economy or politics or anything of substance. I don’t care that you’re anti feminist. All the power to you, I love it to be honest... but using it as a tool to mope about your romantic chances is just weak as hell.
I know I was being mean but this take was annoying. I do love the points you make about our gender differences though.
Are you serious or just trolling? Who says I can’t get a boyfriend lol
I find no challenge in it
I’m serious, and let me correct myself. You can get a boyfriend. Okay.
If you find no challenge in it, then I don’t understand why you felt the need to complain about your dating life.
That aside, I enjoyed your other points ☺️
Wasn’t complaining, just addressing an issue. This isn’t about my dating life; it’s about a general topic. But if you’re upset, not my problem 🤷🏻♀️I would say I respect your opinion too, but you didn’t really give one. You just wanted to try to insult me 😂
I wasn’t trying to insult you. I responded honestly.
I could have been nicer though.
We just need to get completely rid of the phrase “feminism”. Women (and men) who support that radical bullshit really have deep underlying issues than have nothing to do with sexism. But they get poisonous validation out of that crap.
Egalitarianism is a different story. It’s more transparent and doesn’t leave room for double standards. It demands both equal privileges AND equal responsibilities. I’m all for that. But feminism exclusively focuses on women. It is not “equality” between them
I've never felt feminism is against me.
Feminazism is though, that's fake feminism that bashes men.
Real feminism is basically that women have the freedom to choose what the want to do with life, if you want to choose traditional roles or be different, both are acceptable.
The point is that you don't need to feel pressured to do what's expected of you, for both and women.
And there are countries like India that need proper feminism because women are still suppressed and treated horribly here, the rape cases alone are alarming.
It's great that you haven't needed feminism but there women in the world that need it.
Saying feminism isn't needed cause you didn't need it is like saying world hunget isn't a problem cause you had lunch.
"Therefore, it is not hypocritical of me to demand a gentleman."
I love it when women renounce feminism under the motivation that it's going to win them some perfect "Sir Galahad" motherfucker, only to end up with a guy who "shows that he cares" with black eyes.
Ahh.. poetry.. 😊
Lol very pessimistic way to flip it but okay
I’m starting a campaign to overpower feminism.
Who wants in?
It’s all about helping men with there court cases against women who have their head in their asses.
The M. A. L. A
Men’s Association of Law Assistance.
Is this a real campaign?
Not yet
I'll join if it becomes one.
I'm down
I love how this still has no downvotes, watch me jinx it.
I actually thought you were pro-feminism. Personally I don't care if girls or women support feminism in terms of equality, proper pay, respect, etc. But if its to simply argue, show off, belittle men then I question the validity of feminism because a lot has changed from the early 1900s to 2020 in terms of what women and girls genuinely want to stand up and fight for.
LOL okay
You can claim to be anti feminist all you want but the fact is feminism still exists.
I've always said it like this. When a man dates a woman the woman is pointing a gun at the man's head. Not every woman will pull the trigger but you will still ha e a gun to your head.
And shockingly most men don't want to live with a gun to thier head
It exists in society as a whole, of course. Doesn't mean every woman holds the gun.
Yes it does, at any point you can accuse a man of anything and ruin his life. The legal system aka the gun in this metaphor will make sure his life is completely ruined.
Yes, I "can" accuse him, but that doesn't mean I will.
Just like men "can" rape a 5-year-old, but that doesn't mean they will or that all men are rapists.
It's not s Matter of if you will accuse him, it's that you can accuse him and that he has no recourse. If a man rapes he goes to prison. If a woman accuses a man of rape falsely that man is still very likely to go to prison. Even if he is found innocent he is still going to lie his job his friends and his family. And the false accuser faces no consequences for her lie.
I can’t control what society allows. But society doesn’t determine whether I’m a feminist or not
I can never grasp the concept of feminism or feminist so I don't really care about it much. I treat the guys and girls I know equally, with the respect they deserve.
But this was Nice! I admire the effort and love every detail. Thanks for sharing😊
Thank you!
Oh boy, you're going to face a river of shit the size of the Amazon. I praise you for that take.
Not really a gentleman here, even tho I've been called one by more than one girl. I appreciate that you stand up for your opinion even tho it means you won't be liked for it.
Not really concerned about what other people think. I was raised around this.
I'd give you a high five but I'd like an idiot high fiving my screen.
Also hi fives are illegal now because of the pandemic. lol
Are you really anti-feminist though?
It sounds like the only thing you disagree with is being non-feminine and the way gender roles are being changed as much.
I don’t really think feminism challenges gender roles or should at least.
I think if anything you’re anti-feminazi. I might be completely wrong but I totally respect where you’re coming from.