Confessions of a Ladies Man: Nice Guys are Assholes, Bad Guys are Authentic (Page 3)

[Paul09]

Society makes it seem like it's not worth being nice.. I am nice to everyone that is nice to me period. Fake nice people are not nice people.. Nice is nice, bad is bad
That's that. People fake and lie. People love liars I guess? Sucks being nice, end up being too nice, or just a friend type lol. Can't win being nice. But if I become a bad boy, oh man, I become the evil one lol

[devilish-cutie]

I mean i think the moral of the story is that you shouldn't believe everything men tell you
So many think they are nice but really aren't, so many brag how they are sex experets yet they never fucked so honey please

[IAMNathanael]

I'd say neither of them are nice guys. The first might act nice but his intentions in the end prove he's a faker. Which isn't nice from the beginning.

[Apope16]

What if the first guy didn't get upset? What if he got sad and depressed and felt used?

[WowwGirl]

He's honest

[Giustinian]

To be honest not the all nice guys assholes and not all bad guys authentic...
they're tens of types...
and that kind of Nice Guy...==> he's nice because isn't strong and charismatic enough to be bad.
and the bad guy===> he's want to change but hell no... he will not be changed XD

[Anonymous]

Lol " now he's my husband". And if continued " now he's my husband and f***ing 3 other hoes on the side".

I'm not disputing that women go for guy number 2. But guy #1 is seldom the guy you make him out to be. I'm a nice guy and i've never EXPECTED sex from a woman. I surmise that if the guy really did get angry it's probably because she was a slut that was teasing him for 3 dates... yes some women do that, a lot of tjem and growing every year. Lol

[Neal_Anblome]

While many nice guys are either like this, or simply too weak and bland to be interesting, I'd say the woman from the example is pure trash. Going on a date and fucking someone who starts their conversation with a stranger by writing "I want to fuck you" is simply retarded. Not saying you need to hide your intentions or whatever, but some basic decency is necessary among normal intelligent human beings

[Denial1984]

This is bullshit.

There are plenty of examples of imprisoned murderers drowning in fan mail from women.

Lots of nice guys are good people. Lots of jerks are just jerks.

Maybe women just aren't that attracted to "nice".

[Kyrakk]

I couldn't agree more. Although bad guys at first stroke your ego by being blunt and honest they let you decide for yourself if this is what you also want. Guys that were super caring and nice once you did stg they considered inappropriate or they couldn't manipulate you anymore, they showed their true self and acted impulsively and couldn't handle their emotions.

[prince370]

I don't know about lavishing gifts, since I never gave any - I find it offensive to be paying a woman for anything at all (and if I do want to, it's 50 euros a pop at a red light district)

The rest, I am as blunt online, because I can't be bothered to appease - and as charming in person (because in person I am top/never had any troubles with anyone, except that a lot of women from online look a lot worse in person, but I am not a perfectionist anyhow)

[Anonymous]

She'll have sex with him if he's hot, that's the bottom line. The thirst tweets for Ted Bundy should tell you all you need to know about what's really important to women when it comes to sex. The "nice guys" you've described are just ugly or average-looking guys in denial about their position in the pecking order, who think they can charm her into bed, and the "bad guys" are the ones who are good-looking and know they can act however they like and it won't affect their chances of getting laid.

[supercutebutt]

Why is this phony & ridiculous style of posting a thing? What's the point of it?

[Am_and_Pm]

To be honest. I feel like I'm a nice, but not at the point where I go on dates and expect sex. So, having this posted up helps me 'cover future ground work.'

[devilman666]

Best advice, if she don't fuck you on the first date, dont ask her out again, 90% of the time this means she isn't attracted to you. Dont make the mistake of treating her to 3 or 4 dates, wasting money, and then being viewed as the asshole because you expected the relationship to go somewhere.

[Am_and_Pm]

U see, that's the kind if advice I needed 3 fuukin years ago. Oh. Well, at least I know now.

[clampfan101]

That’s not what a nice guy is. That’s just deception. There are genuinely good heated men, and just as much as good women. Nice people are simply easily overlooked.

[Anonymous]

That's what I noticed too, the guys that come off as rude or "bad" are usually genuine while all the supposed nice guys just hide their true personality (how many "nice guys" I know cheat on their wife...).

[TwinTonyz]

I don't understand that whole bad = genuine deal. If they are genuinely "bad" doesn't that mean their behavior isn't ever gonna improve? If it's not that, and instead you're expecting they soften up isn't that also hiding their true personality?

[psychoticanimallover]

Did you make up this little story yourself?

[Jaximus-Lion]

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[JustTheTrue]

For some reason I can’t read anything because it kick me out of the post when I’m reading this

[DWornock]

I'm delighted that it worked out well for you. However, to judge men based on two experiences is worse than faulty logic; it is no logic at all.

[dwiller943]

Nice guys are chicken-shits
and assholes are selfish sleaze-bags.
So both are terrible tbh.

[Anonymous]

Any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king. - Tywin Lannister.

Any man who must say "I'm a nice guy!" is no nice guy.

[Twinrova]

I feel like the archetype of "edge lord" is the best fit for op